TeddyBundy1993 Posted March 31, 2020 Posted March 31, 2020 Ahh so finally he pulled the plug. Yes his explanation is plain bulls***, just covering his mistakes and inability. Anyways just obsess over his explanations. Not all relationship are meant to last. From here on cut all ties, no contact at all this man is toxic for you. Please work on yourself now with your therapist. As time passes you'll get better and trust me stronger than what you are now. Almost everyone of us on this forum didnt knew how to survive but we did. Go easy on yourself this is a phase that will pass. And you'll find a better partner next time ok. But till then get yourself together get this man out of your mind. You share your thoughts here many of us are going through same s***. Good luck 1
stillafool Posted March 31, 2020 Posted March 31, 2020 1 hour ago, Lilou1988 said: He said the sparkle was gone. But then he was all confused, by saying things like : « I don’t need lust and fireworks in a relationship, I only want a stable relationship, sharing the same interests and trust ». This doesn’t make any sense because this is what we had. He was basically trying to find excuses to explain the feeling that was gone. My whole day is filled with tears. I cannot see how I can survive this. It’s basically the same has my break up four years ago. How long did you guys date?
Author Lilou1988 Posted March 31, 2020 Author Posted March 31, 2020 3 minutes ago, stillafool said: How long did you guys date? 10 months.
Rex12 Posted March 31, 2020 Posted March 31, 2020 That's tough Lilou88. The first cut is the deepest as they say. You will not feel any worse than you do now. Take comfort in this fact. Now it's all about you. The only way out is through; feel all the feels. Confide in your close friends, one or two people you can trust will listen to you without prejudice regardless of how many times you tell the tale. You will naturally analyze & over think but that won't last forever. Remember, you gave everything; there was literally nothing else you could do. Your conscience is clear. You fought for love, keep reminding yourself of this in your darkest moments. You do not realize how young you still are at this moment. You want marriage, children to live happily ever after in the country cottage with the pet ducks? You can still have all of that and more. With a man who is committed & loving as what you clearly are. You deserve that. Take some time to process & slowly but surely you'll realize the huge favour this guy has done you. There's a bright future waiting for you. Just keep walking towards it. 1
Author Lilou1988 Posted April 1, 2020 Author Posted April 1, 2020 Thank you so much for your kind words. Helps a lot. Xxxx 1
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