Juha Posted March 28, 2020 Posted March 28, 2020 Met a lady last month, we hit it off right away. We have great chemistry. Are interested and like each other very much. In light of the Corona Virus going on, dating is difficult at best. We did meet up, grabbed a coffee and went for a walk in the park. It was nice. Couple of things seem to be working against this even having a chance. The Pandemic. Also she has been separated since October, Divorce is being finalized very soon. Seems her ex husband was very controlling and her life has a breath of fresh air being out from under his thumb. I am assuming she is not ready nor going to be looking for anything serious for a while, so that leaves me out. Have been thinking if I should bother or not. Nothing will be happening for a while due to CV for starters Then, just casually date with no expectations due to her situation. I am afraid that I will like her too much and want more. Just talking out loud here, tough situation all around.
Malin889 Posted March 29, 2020 Posted March 29, 2020 (edited) Do you have her phone number? I think you should call her and see how she is, have a good conversation so she doesn't forget about you. Then if it goes well, say, would you like to go out after all this is over? OR maybe you can meet for a coffee and walk one day if she's comfortable with that. How do you know she's not looking for anything serious? Did she tell you? Edited March 29, 2020 by Malin889
chillii Posted March 29, 2020 Posted March 29, 2020 (edited) lf it is true about her ex and bear in mind women can say anything unquestioned about an ex , not even by courts , but in my experience it pays to be wary until you see for yourself somehow observing her or even better hear some other sides to the real story if at all possible. The other thing is the first thing they do is latch onto someone new , they're famous for it l mean the inks not even written yet let alone dry but she's onto it already, but the new thing usually only lasts a few mths anyway. Just sayin , lotta things for you to be wary about here even if you can meet. ps, thought you were done dating btw. Edited March 29, 2020 by chillii 1
smackie9 Posted March 29, 2020 Posted March 29, 2020 Listen to your gut....it’s making sense that she is in no position to be looking for a serious relationship. Stick to your expectations and choose whom you date accordingly. You will be making a poor choice pursuing this any further. 1
Lotsgoingon Posted March 29, 2020 Posted March 29, 2020 She isn't divorced. I'd leave her alone ... Separation does not equal divorce. Huge, huge difference.
Malin889 Posted March 29, 2020 Posted March 29, 2020 5 hours ago, Lotsgoingon said: She isn't divorced. I'd leave her alone ... Separation does not equal divorce. Huge, huge difference. true— if she’s not divorced, stay away until she is. And even then, you’ll probably be a rebound, which is not fun. I read your last post from a few weeks back— I thought you were not dating anymore? 1
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