bodyguard Posted October 7, 2005 Posted October 7, 2005 i have been dating this girl for about six months now and well she has commitment issuse and well she told me we where bf and gf but we just dont use the terms and well she was in a bad accident and well i hung around to help her trou it and the other night she told me she was happy that i had hung around but i still have my doubts so if any women can give me any advice it would be appriciated !!
lindya Posted October 7, 2005 Posted October 7, 2005 There's not really enough information here to venture any suggestions as to what she might feel about you. The fact that you've been together for 6 months suggests that there's certainly a bond there. What do you think it is about the situation that is making you feel doubtful?
Jayhawks Posted October 7, 2005 Posted October 7, 2005 Need more info to give you an answer. Tell us what she is doing that causes doubt in you.
Author bodyguard Posted October 7, 2005 Author Posted October 7, 2005 There's not really enough information here to venture any suggestions as to what she might feel about you. The fact that you've been together for 6 months suggests that there's certainly a bond there. What do you think it is about the situation that is making you feel doubtful? see i have been hurt before and well i always think about the worst that would happen but with her i really dont know what to think when i am with her she is lovy and everything it is great but i still got doubts in the back of my mind for some reason and i dont want to have doubts
Author bodyguard Posted October 7, 2005 Author Posted October 7, 2005 Need more info to give you an answer. Tell us what she is doing that causes doubt in you. it is just that she don t want to call each other bf and gf but don t get me wrong she is great we do have a connection and all that and like i said she told me she is happy that i hung around but for some reason i still have my doubts i have been hurt before and don t like to let many people get close to me
Author bodyguard Posted October 7, 2005 Author Posted October 7, 2005 well the situation is good it is just i have been hurt before and i never let anybody get close to me and well the way that i am is that i always think about teh worsth that could happen but i would love to let her in but it is hard for me
Author bodyguard Posted October 7, 2005 Author Posted October 7, 2005 Need more info to give you an answer. Tell us what she is doing that causes doubt in you. i really don t know that is the problem i never let anybody get close to me because i got hurt bad before and with her i have started to let her in and maybe it is just i think i am going to get hurt again
Razorback05 Posted October 7, 2005 Posted October 7, 2005 6 months. That's a significant time together. As for your fears, you just gotta let them go, man. Worrying about the "what if she hurts me" is just cheating yourself out of fun and her out of all of your affection. Infact, your fears will become self-fulfilling if you hold on to them. Even more incentive to just sit back and enjoy the ride. Edit: Not a female. Oops.
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