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Hey everyone. Been lurking around this forum for quite a while and just thought to join the forum . Props to all the posters and their massive amount of experience . 
 

My question is to the ladies and men if they have been in the same situation. 
 

There is this girl i used to date for 5 months.Long distance relationship. Relationship was most of the time warm and we traveled once together in a different country and it was awesome. As soon as we returned the problems started , we started to fight mostly through texting  for around a whole month .  The whole relationship  started simple and during it i thought i has no feelings until we broke things off i realized i wanted her very badly . 
During the time we were fighting we were both cruel to each other . She even pulled that trick that she found someone else , something that made me really furious. Later she said that she was lying and there wasn’t anyone . I didn’t initiate any text message during that time but she always  did , but whenever i was talking to her about she would get angry even with the smallest and simplest of things . A friend of her lost her flight cause of the virus outbreak and i responded with “ too bad all this happened and your friend couldn’t travel “ and she lost it and blamed me that i live in my own world and that human life is important.

 

It felt like i was dealing with a different person than i used to know . Like the person i wanted never returned from the trip . Anyway, in our last big fight i took it too far and she blocked me on instagram. Didn’t talk to her but i felt really guilty so after a week i apologized with a message. She was very aggressive to me and told me to never talk to her ever again cause her “new bf” won’t like it . I accepted it , didn’t texted her again . Maybe it was the only time i initiated after we came from the trip . The next day she unblocked me from instagram but didn’t followed.
 

Couple of days pass and she initiates random convo . I responded neutral and she again became angry with me . This same behavior happened another 2 times . Both times she was asking me when i was coming back again in her area even though when i apologized she said she doesn’t want to meet me ever again . 
 

 

So here is my question. If she’s with somebody else why still bother and text me ? 
Why is she so aggressive to me and gets so easily angry with things that nobody normally would get angry ? 
I’m losing my mind here . What should i do? 
 

Thank you guys

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Why waste your time on this? She’s long distance, you aren’t compatible soyoujust block her.

unless you like drama 

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