yesilikebread Posted March 22, 2020 Posted March 22, 2020 For about two or three months now, I have been walking by an office window where a very cute man sits. We have always stared at each other, but recently he has started to smile. Last week when I was walking home, passing his office as usual, I saw him in the window and he raised his hand and waved at me. I know it's difficult to say with this little information provided, but would you consider this flirting or pure friendliness? I know nothing about this man, but his presence still excites me.
Mystery4u Posted March 22, 2020 Posted March 22, 2020 Sounds like he's being friendly and maybe finds you attractive... but why wait to find out? Next time you see him just knock on the window, when he comes out start a conversation and ask if he would like to meet up for a drink etc. You will soon have your answer and can then stop guessing. 2
simpycurious Posted March 24, 2020 Posted March 24, 2020 On 3/22/2020 at 11:48 AM, Mystery4u said: Sounds like he's being friendly and maybe finds you attractive... but why wait to find out? Next time you see him just knock on the window, when he comes out start a conversation and ask if he would like to meet up for a drink etc. You will soon have your answer and can then stop guessing. Nothing ventured nothing GAINED. It would be nice to read about a SUCCESSFUL connection. Something uplifting and positive.
mortensorchid Posted March 24, 2020 Posted March 24, 2020 Yes, it would be nice to at least say "hi how are you" to him and even just find out his name. But only if he agrees to do so. 2
Gold Pile Posted March 24, 2020 Posted March 24, 2020 Funny, I've been smiling through the window, at an attractive passerby. Next time I'll hold up a card with my phone number. You could be on the brink of a relationship with......me. If it isn't me (sorry) you could hold up your contact info for him to respond.to.
Malin889 Posted March 25, 2020 Posted March 25, 2020 Go in and say hi next time... if you’re afraid to because of social distancing, just give him your # then go. Good luck
preraph Posted March 25, 2020 Posted March 25, 2020 If he knows you're going to be passing by, I wonder why he hasn't put himself on the sidewalk. Probably married would be my guess. And doesn't sound like he gets much work done, honestly....don't start idealizing him.
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