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Who and When usually brings up the Exclusivity, BF/GF talk?


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29 minutes ago, Ruby Slippers said:

I've always let the man bring it up. It's usually within a few weeks. 

I love the way boyfriend handled it. Right after we had sex the first time, he goes, "I want to be your boyfriend." I agreed and that was that :)

hmm, the sex  must have been good :laugh:

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The guy did...didn't have to wait too long. When I was a young teenager we called it "going around" with each other...it was very cute.

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14 minutes ago, alphamale said:

hmm, the sex  must have been good :laugh:

Obviously ;)

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The woman should always bring it up because then it’s clear you’re not getting rejected. If the guy brings it up first she may not be ready. Besides, it’s really the woman who has the veto power in a relationship. Guys just show up, put on a show and hope the woman likes him.

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3 hours ago, Ruby Slippers said:

I've always let the man bring it up. It's usually within a few weeks. 

I love the way boyfriend handled it. Right after we had sex the first time, he goes, "I want to be your boyfriend." I agreed and that was that :)

Lol, it's the same for me, although we haven't actually had sex yet.

But my bf and I are very much into foreplay, and he has a foot fetish, so naturally he brought it up right after his first foot job 😃

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3 hours ago, smackie9 said:

The guy did...didn't have to wait too long. When I was a young teenager we called it "going around" with each other...it was very cute.

Oh yeah!   "will you go round wiv me?"    The last time I heard that, I was 16 😊

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When I was a teenager, we'd say we were "going out" :)

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19 hours ago, Interstellar said:

The woman should always bring it up because then it’s clear you’re not getting rejected. If the guy brings it up first she may not be ready. Besides, it’s really the woman who has the veto power in a relationship. Guys just show up, put on a show and hope the woman likes him.

indeed Interstellar, females start and end 75% of romantic relationships

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