Author AnnabelleLB Posted March 18, 2020 Author Posted March 18, 2020 (edited) I still love the rubbish TV being cuddled up. Bliss Edited March 18, 2020 by AnnabelleLB 3
Author AnnabelleLB Posted March 19, 2020 Author Posted March 19, 2020 Things are still going really really well. I found this office has a daycare so that will help with my son whilst we both work 1
Author AnnabelleLB Posted March 20, 2020 Author Posted March 20, 2020 Things are still great, boyfriends been a bit quiet last day or so. Still getting treated like a princess though. 1
preraph Posted March 20, 2020 Posted March 20, 2020 Maybe he's quiet because he's used up all his witty reparte already! Hope that's all it is, anyway. You do have to get to where you can just sit quietly together at some point.
Blind-Sided Posted March 21, 2020 Posted March 21, 2020 Agreed. When you go from dating to living with each other... there are going to be some quiet times, just because there's nothing new to talk about.
Author AnnabelleLB Posted March 21, 2020 Author Posted March 21, 2020 He is working from home and he went in to his office last night to get his things as they've shut his office down. He was very upset when he got back with his things. I asked what had happened he said "I tided the office as we needed to clear out sharpish, Sat at my desk, heard the phone, Even switched the webcams on and spotify. Made it feel like it was a working day and someone from another office doing the same come in and we had a drink. Wished each other the best, and I closed the blinds. watered the plants as I left and said goodbye to the place" Don't know how to reply to that. 1
preraph Posted March 21, 2020 Posted March 21, 2020 Warm cookies and milk. Sex. I'm sure he's worried. But it won't be forever.
Author AnnabelleLB Posted March 21, 2020 Author Posted March 21, 2020 57 minutes ago, preraph said: Warm cookies and milk. Sex. I'm sure he's worried. But it won't be forever. He has his job, I just want to understand whats going through his mind.
Erik30 Posted March 22, 2020 Posted March 22, 2020 He might be worried that he could possibly lose his job. Or he just had a bad day. Also you're living with him now, so he's not going to be the "fun/happy/outgoing" guy you know from your dates all the time. Now you'll get to see him when he's not on his best behaviour
Author AnnabelleLB Posted March 22, 2020 Author Posted March 22, 2020 8 hours ago, Erik30 said: He might be worried that he could possibly lose his job. Or he just had a bad day. Also you're living with him now, so he's not going to be the "fun/happy/outgoing" guy you know from your dates all the time. Now you'll get to see him when he's not on his best behaviour When he is not at his best he is still kind and considerate I know he is worried just want to be there and help him
SumGuy Posted March 22, 2020 Posted March 22, 2020 He may be worried about if his employer will survive, about working at home. You could likely help by having the home environment be conducive to work, but I bet having you and your son around is comforting. He may wonder if he can do it all and keep it all together, you could ask or let him know you can help. He seems like the kind of guy who wants to and takes pride in providing (not out of arrogance, some personality types are just like that). So now is the time you can help make his life easier as he has done for you, is one way you can explain it. That this is something you can face together, two (or three ) are stronger than 1.
Author AnnabelleLB Posted March 29, 2020 Author Posted March 29, 2020 Sorry for the long delay Things are going quite well. We've had lockdown and living together has been fine. He has had some bad news regarding work that they expect to lose some staff later in the year. He still won't take money off me for food or letting us stay. 2
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