dramallama Posted March 12, 2020 Posted March 12, 2020 Title says it all really, and I'm just venting but I've just had a really uncomfortable situation. The guy I've been seeing for 6 months wanted to share something his friend (let's call him Douche) had put on Instagram and we all have private accounts so I requested to follow Douche. DoucheĀ sent my guy a message asking who I am, heĀ said I was his chick and explained the context (he sent me a screenshot). Next thing I know DoucheĀ sent me a flirty message!Ā I shared it with my guy who seemed pretty shocked. Of course I blocked Douche. Awkward!!! At least I've demonstrated that *I'm* trustworthy, even if DoucheĀ isn't!Ā Why would heĀ even do that?!Ā
Backinthesaddleagain Posted March 12, 2020 Posted March 12, 2020 11 minutes ago, dramallama said: Title says it all really, and I'm just venting but I've just had a really uncomfortable situation. The guy I've been seeing for 6 months wanted to share something his friend (let's call him Douche) had put on Instagram and we all have private accounts so I requested to follow Douche. DoucheĀ sent my guy a message asking who I am, heĀ said I was his chick and explained the context (he sent me a screenshot). Next thing I know DoucheĀ sent me a flirty message!Ā I shared it with my guy who seemed pretty shocked. Of course I blocked Douche. Awkward!!! At least I've demonstrated that *I'm* trustworthy, even if DoucheĀ isn't!Ā Why would heĀ even do that?!Ā Ewww. Hopefully your man loses Douche as a friend immediately. IfĀ Douche is a long term friend or really close to your guy, this makes it even more complicated for you, and your guy. How awful. Douche sounds like a real D-bag... Ā 1 1
smackie9 Posted March 12, 2020 Posted March 12, 2020 (edited) Tip: don't follow BF's friends on social media. I suspect you were set up to see if you were trustworthy because you were the one who made the request. BF put on an act that he was "so surprised" by his friend's actions. He was hoping you would demonstrate trustworthiness. Edited March 12, 2020 by smackie9 3
Backinthesaddleagain Posted March 12, 2020 Posted March 12, 2020 24 minutes ago, smackie9 said: Tip: don't follow BF's friends on social media. I suspect you were set up to see if you were trustworthy because you were the one who made the request. BF put on an act that he was "so surprised" by his friend's actions. He was hoping you would demonstrate trustworthiness. Interesting, I never thought about this. If he doesn't dump Douche, you will then have to find out if it was a setup indeed. If it was a setup, what a creepy thing to do. I don't know if I would stick around after that. Most likely not.Ā Good luck with this DLĀ
Author dramallama Posted March 12, 2020 Author Posted March 12, 2020 It did occur to me that it could have been a test, but then my guy showed me what he'd sent his friend as soon as he'd sent me the link to the post he wanted to share and the Douche lied in his message making some reference to me being a mystery lady... yet I knew he knew who I was already.Ā Ā Anyway, I shall be on the lookout for potential sh*tĀ tests and just see....Ā
Backinthesaddleagain Posted March 12, 2020 Posted March 12, 2020 14 minutes ago, dramallama said: It did occur to me that it could have been a test, but then my guy showed me what he'd sent his friend as soon as he'd sent me the link to the post he wanted to share and the Douche lied in his message making some reference to me being a mystery lady... yet I knew he knew who I was already.Ā Ā Anyway, I shall be on the lookout for potential sh*tĀ tests and just see....Ā This is why I have an extremely small circle of friends and limited social media. I dump "friends"Ā the second I smell drama or nonsense. Ain't nobody got time for that!Ā Good luck with it DL 2 1
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