First date - should I pass on her for this?

[Realitysux]

5 hours ago, MimiCupid82 said:

Wow! Ive personally found it hard to go without sex, my ex and I used to have very good sex and living without it is a nightmare. I always assumed single men almost always maintained some type of sex life. So you don't like being close to women? Then were your last few sex partners just random women?? How did you meet them? Did they approach you?It seems like your not as bad of a person as you think, if you got game like that! Just saying 

It is a nightmare. For me,I have some mental health concerns and I need to make big changes to settle these. Unfortunately, mentally stable and sane are almost every single persons preference so I'm out of the game and temporary out of service .. sex isn't happening for me at all right now but I'm happy that others are happy. 

Edited May 11, 2020 by Realitysux

[MimiCupid82]

12 minutes ago, Realitysux said:

It is a nightmare. For me,I have some mental health concerns and I need to make big changes to settle these. Unfortunately, mentally stable and sane are almost every single persons preference so I'm out of the game and temporary out if service .. sex isn't happening for me at all right now but I'm happy that others are happy. 

That’s terrible! What kind of mental health problems are you dealing with? Do you think one day you can resolve these issues and live a happy normal life? 

[Realitysux]

36 minutes ago, MimiCupid82 said:

That’s terrible! What kind of mental health problems are you dealing with? Do you think one day you can resolve these issues and live a happy normal life? 

Of course 

[Realitysux]

9 hours ago, MimiCupid82 said:

Im sorry but I don’t think a woman would show interest in a man if there wasn’t something special she saw in him. It takes a TON of guts for a Woman to go after a guy she likes. I’ve never done it myself but I don’t doubt that I would if I felt he was worth fighting for. Kinda sounds like you just have some self confidence issues. You should definitely give yourself a shot at love, life is too short to be alone. I’m sorry you have trust issues I know that can be hard to overcome. Do you at least have a sex life???? Not to many men go without sex. 

If a guy was worth fighting for then no doubt 

Edited May 11, 2020 by Realitysux

[Realitysux]

8 hours ago, JS84 said:

Actually I haven't been in a relationship for 9 years. And I think she's married with 2 or 3 kids now, can't be sure. We just fizzled out. My last few sexual partners were all casual and overseas hookups. Most of the relationships I've seen in my life just turn to s***. And honestly when you cut sex and the opposite sex out of your life, you'd be amazed how much less stress you have to deal with. Even thinking about being in a relationship all I can do is picture all the ways things will most likely go wrong and how slim of a chance there is to actually be happy in one. She'll cheat, get bored, drop her mask, flake out, have psych issues, monkey branch to some other guy, etc I can go on. Seen it all over and over and over and am not interested in being a part of that. 

Believe me though I'm not as doom and gloom as I sound lol, I'm relatively content with my life besides wanting a career change. I just have no desire for a relationship and I generally try to avoid getting close to women these days period.

I don't think my situation is all that unique personally.

I have psych issues. Will not date with em

[Tristian]

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