ZA Dater Posted March 10, 2020 Posted March 10, 2020 Is the approach really any different? I have always viewed a hook up being the result of a good date so basically because I have no good dates I never really get much further. Could I hook up without the intellectual connection, not so sure could. Then again the issue once again remains the people I find attractive wont date me so wont hook up with me either. Guys do you change your approach based on looking for a date versus looking for a hook up.
SumGuy Posted March 10, 2020 Posted March 10, 2020 I’d say there is. First be honest you are just looking for casual not a relationship. I’d say it’s going to be harder to get such a date for you if you worry about your appearance and moreover being fun and suave is even more important. 1
d0nnivain Posted March 10, 2020 Posted March 10, 2020 8 hours ago, ZA Dater said: Is the approach really any different? Guys do you change your approach based on looking for a date versus looking for a hook up. I'm a woman but yes the approach is very different. With a hook up I'd be much more handsy. If I wanted a relationship I'd be more proper & standoffish, warm but not inviting early easy sex. If I wanted a hook up my behavior telegraphed that he wasn't going to hear the word no that night. 1
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