He asked me do I love him but he did not said anything about his feelings. Why ?

[d0nnivain]

Sexual partners are entitled to factual information about the health of their sexual partners & the health of those people's partners.  Your FWB deserves to know if you are engaging in behaviors or practices that could potentially expose him to disease.  Similarly you are entitled to the same info from him.  

You have repeatedly stated in various threads that you don't love him or you have implied that you are playing head games with his feelings.  It's time to stop.  Commit to him or end it but stop what you are doing. It's mean.  

[Beendaredonedat]

Geeze... Lets hope condoms have been being used.  O.O

[fkasjf]

Lately he ask me every time do I love him, even though I tell him no, he asks me again next time. During the conversation he said I am in love with him, I said no, and he didn't say anything. Again, he asked me last time do I love him. Why he insist so much?

[fkasjf]

If you are together for a year.

[Gaeta]

No, I would not interpret it as she is in love with you, it's more like an endearing term  like honey and sweety. 

[fkasjf]

We are seeing each. We are friends with benefits. Last time, he asked me "Is there any guy?" I said, no one important and he says "It can't be you are just seeing with me?" I said no. He didn't say anything. 
Why he asked me that?

[Backinthesaddleagain]

How many threads are you going to start about the same guy/relationship? 

[fkasjf]

This is another guy. 100000 times about my guys

[Backinthesaddleagain]

2 minutes ago, fkasjf said:

This is another guy. 100000 times about my guys

Lol, fair enough.

In that case, his intuition is telling him something. And when you lied and said there wasn't anyone else, he didn't believe you. It sounds like you have a lot of irons in the fire, and you may want to re-evaluate things. 

Good luck

[Hopeful30]

On 3/8/2020 at 6:48 PM, fkasjf said:

Wea are seeing for a year. The guy who told me a month ago "If I don't love you ... like you, I wouldn't tolerate this behavior."
We saw each other last night. He asked me if I love him, I said" yes, I think I am in love with yyou", he asked me if I think that  I am in love or I am in love. I said I dont know. He asked me more than once, he insisted on answering, he asked me if I love him and I said yes. But he did not reciprocate. He didn't say he either love me or don't love me. Why ?

"I wouldn't tolerate this behaviour"??!?! Is he trying to convey that he's doing you a favour? I would show him the door and not even blink. People should be together because they want to be, not because they are tolerating each other. He sounds insecure and controlling, in my humble opinion. 

[manfrombelow2]

Seems he started to feel emotional, insecure and jealous.

It's the thing about FWB. Eventually either one will get hurt and that's when the game ends.

[smackie9]

that's when the arrangement has reached it's end...time to move on.

[stillafool]

Even a guy who is a FWB doesn't like to go behind another man.  I think that is why FWB guys want to know who else you're doing.  Hope you use condoms.

[d0nnivain]

On 3/12/2020 at 2:09 PM, fkasjf said:

We are seeing each. We are friends with benefits. Last time, he asked me "Is there any guy?" I said, no one important and he says "It can't be you are just seeing with me?" I said no. He didn't say anything. 
Why he asked me that?

You have asked this question or something like it at least a dozen times.  This man likes you & wants you two to be committed & exclusive. He has said he loves you & you say nothing.  He asks if you love him & you say "no."  He has stupidly asked again & you continue rejecting him but you apparently keep seeing him & sleeping with him.  Some day this guy will hopefully finally get the message that you not being a nice person & you are using him.  He wants so much more emotionally then you have ever been willing to give.  Will you please do the ethical & humanitarian thing & leave the poor guy alone already? 

[dramallama]

OP says this is a different one, looks like there's a common theme though, that they all sense they're not the only one and don't like it.

[stillafool]

Just tell these guys ahead of time that you are only looking for sex and not a relationship.  That way they want get their emotions involved.

[fkasjf]

We are seeing for 2 years. Last week he insist to tell him do I love him. I said yes, I think, he insisted again and I said yes, during sex. After that he asked me and I said that I don't know.
We chatted during day, he was happy to see me.
Last night I was at his place. At first he was happy to see me, we kissed and everything. After that he was cold, distant. We didn't talk to much. And in the car he was silent, he asked me some question, my answers were short. Ahe he didn't ask mr or said anything about my feelings.
Why he was distant? Don't look like him.

[scooby-philly]

Hi @fkasjf - We need a bit more information to help respond to your post appropriately. Such as - how did you meet, how often do you see each other, do you live close to each other, are you living together, have you talked about the future, what the relationship was like before he insisted you tell him you love him, and any other changes in behavior or talk on his or your part in the past few months.

[fkasjf]

We are seeing for 2 years. Last week he insist to tell him do I love him. I said yes, I think, he insisted again and I said yes, during sex. After that he asked me and I said that I don't know.
We chatted during day, he was happy to see me.
Last night I was at his place. At first he was happy to see me, we kissed and everything. After that he was cold, distant. We didn't talk to much. And in the car he was silent, he asked me some question, my answers were short. Ahe he didn't ask mr or said anything about my feelings.
Why he was distant? Don't look like him.

[fkasjf]

I post at 13.pm that is my birthday. He saw my insta post. But  he didn't congratulate me on my birthday. 

It was 23.30pm that night when he did congratulate me on my birthday