He asked me do I love him but he did not said anything about his feelings. Why ?

[fkasjf]

@Cookiesandough I am serious

[fkasjf]

He wants to know with who I am seeing, with who I am having sex. I didn't tell him.

He says that when I am with someone else and I am done with him I remember him, and call him. 

He sleeps with others.

I was a little angry when I saw his photo with another girl. He asked me several times why I am jealous. I said that I am not but he keep asking me.

 

Edited March 10, 2020 by fkasjf

[BaileyB]

Huh? Your post makes little sense.

Your fwb has every right to know that you are sleeping with other people. You are exposing that person to std’s or other communicable diseases. If that person decides the risk is acceptable, that’s their decision. But, they have a right to know you are sleeping with SOMEONE. 

[simpycurious]

1 hour ago, Cookiesandough said:

Whoa... yes. It means he wants to have your babies 

LOL

classic

[preraph]

You better start showing up on time if you want to seal the deal.

[Piddy]

Sounds like you each  have feelings for each other.  Otherwise you wouldn't care who each of you were screwing.  FWB is just about f*%#ibg from what I understand.   Again, sounds like feelings are there and thinking of each other when you're banging someone else is not a good sign.

Edited March 10, 2020 by Piddy

[mortensorchid]

Life is so complicated, isn't it?  Whether it's jealousy or health concerns or whatever else, you want to know because you secretly hope that the other party will see the light and be with you anyway.  Right?  

[basil67]

Is this your FWB who's sleeping with others?   

 

[fkasjf]

@basil67Yes

[basil67]

Ok, so if you're one of a few FWB, we can safely assume he wasn't asking because he feels something special for you.   Is being an annoying tease something which he does regularly?

[fkasjf]

@basil67 We are seeing for 2 years. One year ago he asked me when I will be his girlfriend. He said you don't want anything serious with me. He wasn't joking. I don't understand your question. What do you mean ?

[basil67]

I just wondered if he may have been teasing you.   Regardless, if you're both seeing others and neither of you is transparent about that or how you feel, then there's no relationship to be had.

[Gr8fuln2020]

It doesn't sound like either of you are concerned about STDs, just who is sleeping with whom other than with one another. Yup, he or you or both of you are developing some feelings towards one another and it's becoming territorial...

[Miss Spider]

He wants to have his cake and eat it too and no one else gets a slice ! 

Edited March 10, 2020 by Cookiesandough

[Interstellar]

You should’ve said you’re going out with the entire Kansas City Chiefs offensive line.

Then watch his reaction.

Edited March 10, 2020 by Interstellar

[central]

He has a right only to know that you have other partners, but NOT who they are or how often you see them, etc. IMO, he also has a right to know if you are using protection with them (if you are with him). And if either of you can't handle that the other has other partners gracefully when together, then FWB probably isn't right for you.

[elaine567]

You will find men are often not comfortable with women who sleep with other men, even if she is a  fwb and even if he sleeping with other women.
He plays the field, she needs to be loyal to him and only him, is how many men like it.

[ExpatInItaly]

You keep making threads about this person, and sometimes under different usernames. 

What is it you really want us to tell you, OP?

[JTSW]

I thought you were dating for a year and that you admitted to him that you love him.

Why don't you both just start acting like adults and admit that you have feelings for each other?

That's what this is all about.

Edited March 10, 2020 by JTSW

[JTSW]

What do you want with this guy exactly?

Neither of you are being straight with each other.

How old are you both?

[chillii]

On 3/9/2020 at 11:05 AM, Gr8fuln2020 said:

I find his questioning a little manipulative, frankly. He wanted you to put all of your cards onto the table while holding his close to his chest. No reason for him to do that. If he cared so much for you, he should have simply opened up and said so. No need to cajole a response from another person regarding whether you are or think you are in love. If he were mature, he would have made HIS feelings unambiguous.

 

 

Yeah l thought very much so too, not nice at all pushing her on that yet saying nothing himself.

 

 

[Redhead14]

Here's what you say:  "Listen, Xname.  I am not your girlfriend and I do not have to report to you.  I am sleeping with other people and I am using protection, just like you and I do and I hope you and the other women with whom you are sleeping do.  If you are wanting more from the relationship we have, I am willing to discuss it with you.  Otherwise, we are just friends with benefits and the boundaries for that kind of relationship apply."  If you are being intimate with other, he has a right to know that but not who they are and you should be straight up honest about it like he is about the other women.  Make sure you use protection and you should consider being tested if you've been riding bareback . . .

 

 

Edited March 10, 2020 by Redhead14

[elaine567]

On 3/8/2020 at 10:48 PM, fkasjf said:

He didn't say he either love me or don't love me. Why ?

Because he is your fwb and he is sleeping with other women.
"Love" doesn't enter into it for him.
However his ego gets a boost when you tell him you love him.

[smackie9]

No this is what you do...if the guy starts giving you trouble you ditch him. He has stepped over the boundaries of your little arrangement. He's play games, and you ain't got no time for dat.

[Gaeta]

In this thread you said you think you may be in love with him, and when Ellner asked if you want a relationship with him you said no. Before asking him what he wants maybe you should clarify what *you* want and be clear with him about that.