Fensun90 Posted March 7, 2020 Posted March 7, 2020 Hello! Im a bit confused at what her intentions are. I for one are looking for something serious I met a girl through Tinder over 2 months ago. We clicked a lot and I told a co worker I was going on a date with her. His GF knew her and told me she came out of a very serious relationship about 4-5months ago. (7 months now) They have 2 kids. She got cheated on and left him. Now she was just out to get laid and playing the field he said. I didnt mind really. We went on a date. Clicked well, we had sex on first date. I was somewhat dissapointed about her body, a bit saggy tits and not the best body, but I still get really turned on by her. She left the morning after. I did not contact her after, cause I felt the "one night stand" vibe. She then contacts me after 2 days and we got together again. We have been dating for 2 months straight and she seems very interested. She keeps talking to me all the time and reaches out maybe 5 times a day. We are together maybe two times a week and she spends the weekend When we are together its all real playful and fun, she do tell me personal details, but she do not seem to ask me a lot of personal questions, but listen very good anyway when i speak. She does not really know a great deal of my family life etc. But I have actually met her kids one time. I am also the one making the move or initiating sex, but she is always keen and we do have a lot of sex. She seems to be insecure also.. She sometimes covers her body if its a lot of lights on after sex and she says she dont like compliments either. In the bedroom she is very submissive type, Im always the one choosing positions etc.. Im not sure if this is a sexual relationshio, if she is a broken girl, insecure or just have problems with showing emotion. Should I keep on going with her or should I pursue other girls? She do talk about me in her future plans as well so I am super confused by her
Gaeta Posted March 7, 2020 Posted March 7, 2020 If you are looking for serious dating do not date women right out of a marriage-relationship. After a divorce people need to play the field, get a few transition-relationship, it usually takes a few years to get our head and heart back in the right place. My guess is you are Mr Feel Good, for now.
contel3 Posted March 7, 2020 Posted March 7, 2020 30 minutes ago, Fensun90 said: I was somewhat dissapointed about her body, a bit saggy tits and not the best body, but I still get really turned on by her. She seems to be insecure also.. She sometimes covers her body if its a lot of lights on after sex and she says she dont like compliments either. Im not sure if this is a sexual relationshio, if she is a broken girl, insecure or just have problems with showing emotion. I'm not quite sure why you're surprised about her being insecure….after you just wrote this? 3
SumGuy Posted March 7, 2020 Posted March 7, 2020 Although I am able to read her mind from the information you provided, if you want to know her intentions then talk to her. Seriously though, everything you describe is consistent with being a human. Us humans do vary in personality type and the same action by two different people can mean tow different things. She could be out the door the next minute or planning your wedding. Communication is important if you are looking for a relationship. If you do decide to pursue other girls break up with her first. Don't cheat on her like her ex.
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