Mary3 Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 Well begging does not really help. It didnt help when I was the dumper. And it didnt help when I was the dumpee. Thankfully I was here for the later.
jaye Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 Thanks everyone i guess in future if i needed an advice i'll keep you guys in mind and shoot a question before i do something. i hope whatever you are saying is true, i learned something new today, i was making same old excuse "WHY ME?" i guess i am not the only one. thanks again.
loony Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 - in almost every single relationship I've been cheated on How is it possible to stay sane when you go through so many bad experiences?
basscatcher Posted October 17, 2005 Posted October 17, 2005 How is it possible to stay sane when you go through so many bad experiences? Quality Coping Statements I want . . . but I can tolerate what I get. I fancy . . . but I can work it out if . . . . I had sooner . . . but I can adapt either way. I am inclined to . . . but I can survive if . . . . I favor . . . but it isn't crucial to my happiness. I would choose . . . but I won't fall apart if . . . . I would like . . . but I can manage even if it doesn't. I would sooner . . . but I can make do with whatever. I lean to . . . but I can get along if it does or doesn't happen. I would prefer it if . . . , but I can stand it if it doesn't happen. My first choice would be . . . , but it is really not that important. It would be nice if . . . were changed, but I can live with it as it is. I am partial to . . . , but I can cope with life if it doesn't work out. It is my predilection that . . . , but I will manage with or without it. I wish . . . would happen, but I can cope with reality if it never does. It would seem better if . . . , but I can accept it if . . . happens instead. I would select . . . given the opportunity, but I can adapt to life with . . . anyway. I want . . . to be corrected as soon as possible, but I will be OK even if it never is. I would rather . . . , but in all honesty it really doesn't matter much in the long run. I desire to control . . . , but I can make the best of my life even if I never learn how. ]It is more desirable for me that . . . , but in a hundred years who will care or remember? I want what I want and I want it now, but I've learned that it is not a catastrophe, a disaster, terrible, horrible, awful, or the end of the world even if I never get it.
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