megabit15 Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 Alpha- most women love a man who meets their needs, all their needs. Any man who can do that with me can definitely have pussy for life. Every day I thank God that I've got a wonderful husband who treats me like he does and knows how to rock my world! I love this woman!!! Mz. Pixie is my new hero
jaye Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 Most women would say they love "A" but In Reallity they love "B" And Non of them give a Damn about "C" Honeybunch how can you expect them to admit their nagetive side? This Exclude you, cus you are a wonderful conversational companion and i don't wanna mess with you.
jaye Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 I love this woman!!! Mz. Pixie is my new hero hahahahaha :lmao: :lmao: :lmao:
kitten chick Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 I think there's a world of women out there for all three types RP.
megabit15 Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 hahahahaha :lmao: :lmao: :lmao: What? You think I'm kidding?? She's spot on (to borrow a lovely phrase from the Brits)
Apex Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 A is a borderline doormat. B is what they want. C is the typical doormat. He flirts a lot and dates many women.High demand equals high value. When he is up for grabs, the women race to get him first. He tells them he'd call but he doesn't.Very wise. The answering machine is the devil. I and I’m sure most of the guys here hate it with a passion. Machines don’t give us feedback. Machines can be played back the message over and over giving her an ego trip. He has many guy friends who admire his character.That is a first. It is a fact in life that quality usually goes down with quantity. Some women are crazy about him, but he doesn't give a damn about them.High demand plus limited availability makes him more valuable. In a relationship, well... you never know with him. He may be here today and gone tomorrow. His lady is always in fear that he might leave her.This forces her to work harder, and women like projects. Her heart melts when he tells her "Hey, you look nice tonight" because he rarely tells her compliments.Very wise. He avoids spoiling her so his compliments are more like compliments as opposed to a tax. Her heart sinks when he goes out with other people and acts like he is not really interested in being in a relationship with her. Most things have to be done his way.She has competition forcing her to work harder which results in more projects for her. He refuses to commit and is self-sufficient.He is not dependent on her so she has less power over him. Again, she must work harder to keep her man. When she gets a present from him, it must be her birthday... yesterday.Again, he avoids spoiling her. Here is a simple scenario. Man a is a jerk. Woman b is Man c’s girlfriend. Man c is Woman b’s boyfriend. If Man a gropes Woman b, what should Man c do? What would RecordProducer’s men do?
elijahBailey Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 Here is a simple scenario. Man a is a jerk. Woman b is Man c’s girlfriend. Man c is Woman b’s boyfriend. If Man a gropes Woman b, what should Man c do? What would RecordProducer’s men do? What's this got anything to do with RP's question?
megabit15 Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 You can have both. :lmao: :lmao: that was cute.
fundamental Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 A is what women want but doesn't think exists. B is what women go for after getting bored of C. C is what women go for after being dumped on by B. Then women get bored again and try B
kitten chick Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 C is what women go for after being dumped on by B. Then women get bored again and try B Now we're getting somewhere. I'm almost with you except that I think that any self-respecting woman will only have 1 (or 2 tops) relationship with B type men. Now, I think that women believe that A type men do exist however each one will lean one way towards B or C. Personally, I would prefer an A that leans towards C. Anyone else feel like they're taking the SATs all over again?
amber245 Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 Remember, PADAMECKLA, that "bad boys" are created and perpetuated by females... What do women get together in a factory and make these bad boys? And by the way your profile says that you are 40 so stop calling yourself a boy as it is pathetic. You probably think that women also make rapists and child abusers in the same factory. Grow up and stop blaming women for the horrible things you want to do to them.
RecordProducer Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 I am very disappointed to hear that men think we want B (the Bad Boy) and not A (The Alpha male). Maybe you just can't be A and between B and C you choose B, because you're not able to be mature and nice, you can't accept defeat (tough guys, huh!) so you want to protect yourself in the future by being mean to women. Finally, maybe this is true: Grow up and stop blaming women for the horrible things you want to do to them. A little extreme, but very possible explanation.
fundamental Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 I am very disappointed to hear that men think we want B (the Bad Boy) and not A (The Alpha male). Maybe you just can't be A and between B and C you choose B, because you're not able to be mature and nice, you can't accept defeat (tough guys, huh!) so you want to protect yourself in the future by being mean to women. Finally, maybe this is true: A little extreme, but very possible explanation. RP, I don't believe women want B. I just think that some women don't truly believe A exists... and for the most part he does not exist... not because there aren't men like him but because too many men TRY to be the bad boy or TRY to be the nice guy.
amber245 Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 she must work harder to keep her man. Shut up. You sound like a crabby old teacher writing a report card.
RecordProducer Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 RP, I don't believe women want B. I just think that some women don't truly believe A exists... and for the most part he does not exist... not because there aren't men like him but because too many men TRY to be the bad boy or TRY to be the nice guy. You are probably right, but what frustrates me is that men think that they benefit from being the B type; this is not about what women like anymore. Imagine if women claimed that men loved the B-girl! Would you agree? I think men tend to fall more for bad girls, yet I don't want to be the B type. I like to think of myself as the A or C type (converted to feminine terms, of course).
helena abadi Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 re bad boys are created by females........ as much as i find alphamale's views mostly boorish, let's indulge his statement for a moment. altho he probably believes bad boys are created by females in adult relationships. here's my 50c worth, having done some reading on the subject. in our adult relationships we seek to heal the wounds of childhood, and unfortunately repeat patterns of behaviour learned with parents. one of the key drivers for the bad boy is this: he believes his job in relationships is to run away from the demands of women. he may not think this on a conscious level. it it likely he had a domineering parent, probably his mother, and a distant father, and at crucial milestones in his life when he would be making decisions towards independence, he would have been prevented from doing so. his mother may have depended on him emotionally too much for support, due to a distant or totally absent husband. unable to assert himself openly, and unable to express his anger directly, the potential bad boy becomes subversive as a way to survive and achieve his goal for independence. his father may have been a bad boy too. the child would unavoidably learn that emotional distance was the way to go. in the bad boy's adult relationships, emotional intimacy becomes almost impossible. memories of the overly-dependent parent make him feel easily trapped or suffocated in relationships. he lies and cheats (subversive and passive behaviour learned as a child) as a way of avoiding intimacy. he is still fighting his childhood battles, still trying to assert his independence. he becomes a magnet for women who think they can change him. he is a temporary pursuer by nature, may be a consummate seducer, rushing into relationships then quickly distancing himself when he feels threatened. a commitment phobe and a player. investing too much in a bad boy is also avoiding emotional intimacy. you are in a one-way relationship - giving but not receiving. bad boys may pretend to be in monogamous relationships, all the while juggling multiple partners, without guilt. the bad boy isn't going to change, so long as he has a supply of women who put up with his behaviour. i dumped a bad boy who wasn't used to being dumped, told him to get a life before he destroyed himself. in doing so i developed more self-respect. to my surprise he took notice, spontaneously expressed remorse, respected me and vowed to redeem himself. but i didn't want him back. too much damage had been done by then. i wished him well for his future and we parted as friends. and let's not forget there are bad girls too. i was a bad girl (abusive, domineering father, distant mother) and broke hearts. i couldn't openly confront my father. it was horrible stuff. i felt betrayed by both parents. i easily felt trapped in relationships, and had no respect for the men who continued to pursue me because they kept excusing my bad behaviour. oh what a tangled web we weave.
amber245 Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 That was really good Helena Abadi. Nasty guys are insecure and they want everyone else to feel like that too.
d'Arthez Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 RP you are making an obvious mistake. Only a tiny minority of men can be type A. So what options do most men have? B or C, and that is assuming your typology is exhaustive.
fundamental Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 RP you are making an obvious mistake. Only a tiny minority of men can be type A. All men can be an A there isn't a limit... but most men do not want to put in the effort to improve himself. The "nice guys" say it's a woman's fault that a man turns into a bad boy. Sure, turning into a bad boy may work initially (just as how a real a-hole jerk can trick women into hooking up with him by being a good guy) but in the end, why would anyone want to change himself to gain approval from women??? I would rather be single than to change myself into a bad boy or a "nice guy" just to get a woman.
HotCaliGirl Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 All men can be an A there isn't a limit... but most men do not want to put in the effort to improve himself. The "nice guys" say it's a woman's fault that a man turns into a bad boy. Sure, turning into a bad boy may work initially (just as how a real a-hole jerk can trick women into hooking up with him by being a good guy) but in the end, why would anyone want to change himself to gain approval from women??? I would rather be single than to change myself into a bad boy or a "nice guy" just to get a woman. I think love is blind and women get into relationships with the "bad boy" or "nice guy" not based on falling into their "type" but based on other factors - if they have chemistry, if he makes her laugh, if they have things in common....once she falls for him, she then analyzes/complains about other aspects "he's too passive"(nice guy)..."he's not responsible"(bad boy)...etc etc. but it is immature to have a type and try to meet people who fit into those limited molds since humans are complex and have a combination of factors/types that is hard to list in a preferamce list, then go out trying to find your Mr. Perfect who falls into your checklist. In the real world, you might fall for a guy across a crowded room and make up your mind that youll put up with any of his characters, he's the one...or else get to know him over a long preiod of time and get used to all his traits you would otherwise think wasn't your type, end up marrying and living happily ever after, both of the above have happened to people I know. Or else saying you like type this or that is no different than sayingi you like someone who has a certain eye color or height or shape...it's the combination of the whole appearance. I think most sane women would prefer a responsible man who can hold down a job and not be going in and out of jail, who makes her laugh and they enjoy being with each other, all the other traits can fall into "nice' or "bad" categories.
d'Arthez Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 In bold are some comments, why it is impossible for every man to be A. 1. A is the guy who has a lot of success at work and with people. exclude sociopaths, or people with little empathic talent. Exclude the lesser educated people if they do not have an enormous drive / are succesful owners of (small) business. Exclude the people who don't care about success at work. He is opinionated yet mild in expressing his opinions and accepts that he may be wrong sometimes.No bloated egos and actual understanding of some matters, including politics. He has good manners and is reliable, treats everyone with great respect. He is a man of word.Exclude the not so conscientious. In a relationship, he treats the woman as a queen; he makes sure she has a few orgasms before him, he tells her she is beautiful, he calls her when he says he will, he buys her presents. He has actually money to spend, which means he is not on a low income job He makes mistakes from time to time though. He doesn't let her treat him poorly, he protests against being called names or treated like sh*t, because he has self-respect. He apologizes for hurting her with the same ease as he stands up for his rights and lets her know she is wrong if he so believes. Exclude guys of type C, who don't have any ego of their ownHe has his hobbies and will not forget about them because of any woman. He has many friends and they love him for the person he is.How many people truly can say that? And don't need to dress properly to go to a party, because otherwise he would be a buffoon? He likes it when his lady is happy and doesn't want to create drama in her life - and thus in his life too.Exclude people who work more than 1 fulltime job. He is faithful and honest and requires the same from his partner. He doesn't tolerate lies or infidelity and if that happens, he may simply walk away.And considering that the majority of men cheat at least once in their lives, we are certain that the majority of men does not belong to category A.
JS17 Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 And considering that the majority of married men cheat at least once in their lives' date=' we are certain that the majority of men does not belong to category A.[/quote'] Is that true D?
jaye Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 What do women get together in a factory and make these bad boys? And by the way your profile says that you are 40 so stop calling yourself a boy as it is pathetic. You probably think that women also make rapists and child abusers in the same factory. Grow up and stop blaming women for the horrible things you want to do to them. oh SH*T Alpha is gonna get pissed off now
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