alphamale Posted October 12, 2005 Posted October 12, 2005 Yeah but not indefinetly. Bad boys dont usually last in committed relationships. They don't want to "last in committed relationships". They want to bang as many women in as short a period of time as possible. And there are many willing females out there who will have them, even if it is fleeting. Remember, PADAMECKLA, that "bad boys" are created and perpetuated by females... As to getting old, so what....how many 65 yr old men or women are interested in sex anyways??? The old aged "bad boy" will have plenty of wonderful memories to keep him company in his old age (assuming he does not get alzheimers)
Mary3 Posted October 12, 2005 Posted October 12, 2005 "Home" Improvement. "Women love projects," says Janet. "Bad boys suggest that alterations can be made." } I dont want to fix guys anymore....they own their own issues now....
basscatcher Posted October 12, 2005 Posted October 12, 2005 Remember, PADAMECKLA, that "bad boys" are created and perpetuated by females... I think there is some truth to this but not entirely.. I think men want there cake and want to eat it too so they chose to put notches on their belts. As to getting old, so what....how many 65 yr old men or women are interested in sex anyways??? I will be!!!! Why wouldn't I be. Can't get pg anymore.. Also, it's great exercise and enjoyment. I have a gf who is in her late 60s and that women gets more then I do.. Sad but true. She is a genuine sex machine. Married to a guy my age... Go figure??? The old aged "bad boy" will have plenty of wonderful memories to keep him company in his old age (assuming he does not get alzheimers Alzheimers? I wouldn't worry about that as much as having a scabby, infected, rotted tallywacker. What kind of wonderful memories would that be. And being alone with no one to care for him. What a lonely life that would be, all his strip club buddies are dying off or sick, he's to old for a attractive young woman to want him (unless he has money and she is a GD). If he did want sex he would have to find bar fly and what kind of sex would that be?. Just doesnt seem like a nice retirement to me.
Apex Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 Personality and excitement always wins out, as does the "bad boy".It seems more like drama for otherwise bored women. The nice guy generally doesn’t disturb the peace whereas the bad boy likes to stirs up a lot of trouble.
Apex Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 If their tallywackers haven't fallen off by then and they need sex still they will have to resort to old, drunken, wrinkled, used women that always ran after those bad boys and didnt wake up to realize that they should have never wasted their time trying to be the princess to change them.If they don’t have a conscience, then chances are, they probably won’t experience regret. I have seen this several times in my hometown up in the north. Ladies who run with the bad boys. They are still single and running in the bars trying to pick up older men who are bad boys. I have heard them complain about being alone not having a man at home with them.For the bad boy, a woman is like a car. They like to trade her in for a newer model when the mileage gets high.
alphamale Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 It seems more like drama for otherwise bored women. The nice guy generally doesn’t disturb the peace whereas the bad boy likes to stirs up a lot of trouble. Well APEX....why do you think women totally love to watch soap operas and drama show on TV? They eat this krap up like its chocolate cake. Women do not like boring stuff. They love to gossip and make fun of people and stir things up and get in arguments and cry and laugh. Its all about emotions and feelings for them. If you are a man and understand this then you'll do well with women. Most women would rather be miserable and have negative emotions than to have no emotions at all.
basscatcher Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 Most women would rather be miserable and have negative emotions than to have no emotions at all. Not me. I don't need anymore ulcers. I quit.. Sometimes I'm nieve and get pulled into a miserable situation and negative emotions stir but in all truth I don't want them. Exh found out the hard way not to place his miserble life in mine. He's about to go to jail for breaking a OP. Misery loves company and I don't want to visit...
alphamale Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 Sometimes I'm nieve and get pulled into a miserable situation and negative emotions stir but in all truth I don't want them. I never said that women want negative emotions. I'm trying to point out that women need them from time to time. There's a big difference here....
basscatcher Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 I never said that women want negative emotions. I'm trying to point out that women need them from time to time. There's a big difference here.... Now you sound like my Herbalist. He said I should have a hard, good laugh everyday and I should have a good hard cry everyday for my health. ?what??? Go figure... Doesnt sound saine.
whichwayisup Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 Badboys are supposed to give you the time of your life IN BED and make you ride the rollercoaster for abit. The gut knows this as you enter into a relationship or a fling with them. I don't know about the negative emotions, that ususally doesn't start until further on into the relationship. Some people are addicted to the highs/lows of it all. Gets boring after a while though once the fun slows down.
slubberdegullion Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 Now you sound like my Herbalist. He said I should have a hard, good laugh everyday and I should have a good hard cry everyday for my health. An Herbalist? Nothing wrong with a good belly-laugh. Even a good cry may do you good on occasion. But every day? Or is this one of the all-natural types that builds their case for herbs & so-called natural stuff on scant evidence and second-hand information so they can sell their pills & other assorted junk? *grumpy mood today*
basscatcher Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 An Herbalist? Nothing wrong with a good belly-laugh. Even a good cry may do you good on occasion. But every day? Or is this one of the all-natural types that builds their case for herbs & so-called natural stuff on scant evidence and second-hand information so they can sell their pills & other assorted junk? *grumpy mood today* He studies some chinese stuff, likes astrology, is a renouned herbalist in the midwest over 25 years. Half the stuff he babbled about I didn't understand. I'm new to it all. He said something about laughing and crying releasing tension in the body in different ways and also releasing certain chemicals in your body naturally that slow down the aging process and strengthening your immune system.
elijahBailey Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 He said something about laughing and crying releasing tension in the body in different ways and also releasing certain chemicals in your body naturally that slow down the aging process and strengthening your immune system. hmm, I dunno.... too complicated. For me, a bottle of Jack Daniels usually does the trick.
alphamale Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 He said something about laughing and crying releasing tension in the body in different ways and also releasing certain chemicals in your body naturally that slow down the aging process and strengthening your immune system. So what does this clown's cure for metastatic bone cancer look like? Is it soemthing like below: 1 cup ice 1 tablespoon ginseng 3 tablespoons of ginger extract 1 tsp natural organic garlic, ground 3 oz of red wine vinegar 4 root of elderberry 1 cup of squid ink (black preferrably) 1 cup of Johnny Walker Red mix in blender on half speed for 30 seconds and drink.
basscatcher Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 Don't know ALPHA, but your sarcastic side is coming out... Your reciepe with some adjustments looks like it might work for something. As for the Herbalist; personally, his suggestion of intake of certain vitamins and minerals has helped me feel better and my skin, hair and nails are better. and what does this have to do with this thread anyway....??????? Oh, I know-- *+*So ALPHA can show is bad boy side through his sarcasm.*+*+ JK. I love to read what you have to say. It usually stirs controversy.
morrigan Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 I guess that in your experience, all attractive women are sad and depressed and have no self-esteem. I have met and dated many attractive women and they absolutely loved my consideration and kindness. You must not get out much because there is a whole world of beautiful women who do not want to meet your version of a bad boy. Especially those women who grew up with actual "bad boy" fathers and can see through the same BS. There's not one type of the bad boy/girl--some are merely wannabes, some are classic narcissists, some are violent abusers. Not all attractive women find them sexy, just manipulative. They may be exciting in the short term, but they're self serving and ultimately one dimensional. The best way for someone to deal with a bad boy/girl is to laugh them off, ignore their advances (some will pursue people who don't fall for them easily) or to use them and dump them before they pull their same old game on you. Some females see serial womanizers as a challenge--they want to believe that they're more desirable or interesting than the other women he has been with if they can somehow get him to fall in love or commit to them. It usually doesn't work long term. It is easy to call yourself a nice guy / bad boy. That does not make you one. Quite true.
RecordProducer Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 The little engine that could. Don't make me laugh. Actually, Apex, if you think that the little engine will become a big one by pretending to be a bad boy, faking his whole personality, and treating women like sh*t, you're wrong. A naturally dominant guy, the leader type is able to control every situation with great ease. He can afford to be sweet and nice and still not look like a doormat. Actually I have this feeling that only those who got hurt by women multiple times propagate this bad-boy strategy. In reality women differ. Some women are impressed by bad boys, but not all of them. I loved Morrigan's views. I personally want to respect a guy because he is worthwhile. His wonderful personality (intellect, sense of humor, success, social status, noble heart, etc.) will keep me on my toes. I want to respect him for who he is. I want to be respected by a great man. Having a wonderful personality plus self-confidence accompanied by good manners is so sexy for me. If you have nothing to offer then you have to fake it. Like an employee coming to apply for a job that knows nothing, but says "I have a few well-paid job offers." You can't raise a product's price by simply putting another zero to the amount; the product has to justify the high price.
Pyro Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 A naturally dominant guy, the leader type is able to control every situation with great ease. He can afford to be sweet and nice and still not look like a doormat. Actually I have this feeling that only those who got hurt by women multiple times propagate this bad-boy strategy. If you have nothing to offer then you have to fake it. Like an employee coming to apply for a job that knows nothing, but says "I have a few well-paid job offers." .[/u][/b] You are SO CORRECT.
jaye Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 Being badguy is an art, its a Godgiven gift, not everyone has it. pretending to be a badguy when you're actualy not, you might endup in a bodybag, so becareful. Few Tips watch a lot of alpachino movies a lot of DMX movie listen to SH*T Rap all day long. when you wake up, first thing you do it kick you g/f or wife outta bed while she is sleeping and tell her go make you a cup of coffee. then disappear for all day come back home then kick her once again, grab her by hair, drag her all over the backyard, kick her in the stomech couple of times, cover her face with dirt, then cheat on her every now and then. and thats whats gonna make you a bad bad guy. ("above is only a joke don't take it personal")
fundamental Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 It's not just women that like bad boys. Guys like bad girls and women like bad boys. Guys want b****y women. In movies, most people always enjoy the cool bad guy character. In soap operas the bad guy/girl character is usually the most popular. Alpha is right with the emotion thing. If the character/person brings out positive and some negative emotions, he/she wins out over someone that cannot bring out any emotion at all. The problem with the "nice" guy is that he is so nice that he is afraid to bring out any negative emotions. A good guy is what women really want.
loony Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 A good guy is what women really want. I want a kitten...
alphamale Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 Alpha is right with the emotion thing. If the character/person brings out positive and some negative emotions, he/she wins out over someone that cannot bring out any emotion at all. The problem with the "nice" guy is that he is so nice that he is afraid to bring out any negative emotions. Exact-a-mundo FUNDAMENTAL....the "nice guy" is afraid to upset the female and thinks if he goes against her or makes her mad then she won't like him any more. This shows a total lack of confidence in himself. A man who has the confidence to stand up for himself and piss his woman off once in a while will always win out. The confident guy knows that his chances of keeping the woman around are greater if he is more honest and open and does what he wants. He shows her that he does not need her approval.
RecordProducer Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 Okay, I have a question for all ladies here. Please point out at Mr. Right (for your taste), ok? 1. A is the guy who has a lot of success at work and with people. He is opinionated yet mild in expressing his opinions and accepts that he may be wrong sometimes. He has good manners and is reliable, treats everyone with great respect. He is a man of word. In a relationship, he treats the woman as a queen; he makes sure she has a few orgasms before him, he tells her she is beautiful, he calls her when he says he will, he buys her presents. He makes mistakes from time to time though. He doesn't let her treat him poorly, he protests against being called names or treated like sh*t, because he has self-respect. He apologizes for hurting her with the same ease as he stands up for his rights and lets her know she is wrong if he so believes. He has his hobbies and will not forget about them because of any woman. He has many friends and they love him for the person he is. He likes it when his lady is happy and doesn't want to create drama in her life - and thus in his life too. He is faithful and honest and requires the same from his partner. He doesn't tolerate lies or infidelity and if that happens, he may simply walk away. 2. B is the typical heart-breaker. He flirts a lot and dates many women. He tells them he'd call but he doesn't. He has many guy friends who admire his character. Some women are crazy about him, but he doesn't give a damn about them. In a relationship, well... you never know with him. He may be here today and gone tomorrow. His lady is always in fear that he might leave her. Her heart melts when he tells her "Hey, you look nice tonight" because he rarely tells her compliments. Her heart sinks when he goes out with other people and acts like he is not really interested in being in a relationship with her. Most things have to be done his way. He refuses to commit and is self-sufficient. When she gets a present from him, it must be her birthday... yesterday. 3. C is his mom's favorite child. He dreams about true unconditional love and will do anything for his lady. Her parents are happy with her choice. He doesn't drink or smoke, he hasn't had many women in bed, he has barely used any woman for sex ever. His last two girlfriends broke his heart. He seems a bit insecure, but charming. He will never cheat on his lady or lie to her. If she needs anything, he'll be there for her. In bed, he will do whatever she wants from him. He apologizes every time she complains about his behavior. He doesn't want to hurt her. He thinks she is the best.
elijahBailey Posted October 16, 2005 Posted October 16, 2005 awww come on RP, all the ladies are gonna choose (A). But it still doesn't change the fact you're all still gonna be attracted to (B). We all know that. © is the typical doormat so you can scratch that one out. This is a no-brainer.
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