simpycurious Posted February 28, 2020 Posted February 28, 2020 1 hour ago, I'veseenbetterlol said: Agree here. There are great caring men out there and crappy women. Sadly in OP's situation, that's how the guy is. She can either look for something better or accept that he will never be caring towards her. The OP's guy just didn't make the right choice (IMO) and put himself FIRST. Selfless love is a powerful thing. 1 1
Miss Spider Posted February 28, 2020 Posted February 28, 2020 You 1 hour ago, simpycurious said: The OP's guy just didn't make the right choice (IMO) and put himself FIRST. Selfless love is a powerful thing. You’re very wise, simpy 1
simpycurious Posted February 28, 2020 Posted February 28, 2020 11 minutes ago, Cookiesandough said: You You’re very wise, simpy I have my moments every so often....you aren't bad yourself Cookie 1
IslandSanctuary Posted February 28, 2020 Posted February 28, 2020 (edited) Well it would just be money down the toilet. How sick were you? I don't go spend 24/7 with my gf when she is sick. If she told me I had to I would but I'd be pissed off at her. I think you're being ridiculous, it was just one day. He's a bf not a slave. What would he have done? Waited on you hands and feet? I might do that if I didn't have a trip planned. I think this behaviour is controlling and manipulative. Edited February 28, 2020 by IslandSanctuary
IslandSanctuary Posted February 28, 2020 Posted February 28, 2020 Well it would just be money down the toilet. How sick were you? I don't go spend 24/7 with my gf when she is sick. If she told me I had to I would but I'd be pissed off at her. I think you're being ridiculous, it was just one day. He's a bf not a slave. What would he have done? Waited on you hands and feet? I might do that if I didn't have a trip planned. I think you're controlling and manipulative. My partner thinks I'm incredibly supporting and caring. I'm really glad I'm not with any of the childish women on here condemning this man for what he did here, it's pathetic. 2
I'veseenbetterlol Posted February 28, 2020 Posted February 28, 2020 22 hours ago, simpycurious said: The OP's guy just didn't make the right choice (IMO) and put himself FIRST. Selfless love is a powerful thing. Selfless love is amazing! OP has to pick whether she wants to keep this guy or find someone new who has selfless love. 1 1
preraph Posted February 28, 2020 Posted February 28, 2020 On 2/27/2020 at 1:56 PM, Allupinnit said: Yeah see I wouldn't have married that guy. I once dated a super hot guy around the holidays. I went and bought a Christmas tree and he was over when I decorated it. He sat on the couch and watched weight lifting videos as I decorated my tree by myself. I knew there and then it would be only a fling. I totally hear you on that. Once I had a small group of close friends over to put up the tree. It fell over and not one person got up to help me right it! I am not a cry-y person, but all of a sudden I was just questioning my choice in friends, and especially men. It was all wrong. I went in the bathroom and cried.
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