justaniceguy Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 Wanted to bounce this off of you. In a nutshell... Recently had a conversation with my female friend. I was talking with her and during the conversation I said "if you ever feel like you need to date other guys, I'm cool with that. Just let me know... and I'll go away". A bit blunt, but quite honest. She told me that if I really loved her that I shouldn't mind if she meets guys and has one or two dates with them. I disagreed and I was dumped. I have always been about being with one person at a time. What is your take on this?
Art_Critic Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 You were going to get dumped by her anyway. What a biotch !!
reservoirdog1 Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 That's one of the craziest examples of twisted logic I've ever heard. Forget her -- she's clearly pretty much forgotten you.
Author justaniceguy Posted October 6, 2005 Author Posted October 6, 2005 You're right, it was going to be now or later... I'll take the now and deal with it. She does still want to be my "friend" though. Trying to figure how to make that work,.
Art_Critic Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 Trying to figure how to make that work,. Why ??? .. with friends like that you don't need enemies and users
alphamale Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 I said "if you ever feel like you need to date other guys, I'm cool with that. Just let me know... and I'll go away". Why would you say that? It makes you look like a pathetic loser and a lap dog also... What is your take on this? My "take" is that women don't like nice guys....and you sound like one. Start acting like a selfish jerk and you'll have all the women you want...and more.
Author justaniceguy Posted October 6, 2005 Author Posted October 6, 2005 I made the "if you want to date..." comment because it was relevant to the conversation we were having. I'm not going to spend time with someone if I feel like I'm in competition with someone else. This really answered the question of where I stood with her. I have no desire to be a jerk. If my choices are a) be a jerk or b) be alone, then I'll take option b.
alphamale Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 I have no desire to be a jerk. If my choices are a) be a jerk or b) be alone, then I'll take option b. Ok, have fun
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