Gnulian Posted February 21, 2020 Posted February 21, 2020 Hi all. Just posting on here to get some advice from y'all as I'm so confused about this whole situation. So I met this girl in a professional capacity about a year ago and we worked together for about 5 months. I then quit the job, but we remained friends albeit only through social media (liking posts, commenting etc). Back in October last year we met up at a function which was organised by my previous employer and to which I was invited. I told her it was nice to see her and we chatted quite a bit. I wouldn't say it was flirtatious or anything along those lines. At this function I asked her out on a date and to be honest, I can't remember what exactly her reaction was, but she did call me her bro a couple of times that evening. Suffice to say we didn't go on a date but left saying to each other that we should see each other again sometime soon. That obviously didn't happen, and a couple of months passed, but throughout this time we were always 'friends' on social media, liking and commenting on each others posts. Back in the beginning of this year she got in touch with me to say we should catch up sometime soon. I said OK and we planned to meet for dinner. The day before she texted to say she couldn't make the dinner 'date' (her words) and that we should reschedule to after I got back from my holiday. Whilst I was away on holiday (3 weeks) we didn't have any sort of contact (not even on social media) but she did text me wishing me a happy valentines day and that she can't wait to see me. I replied back to her wishing her the same and that I was looking forward to seeing her. We had made another plan for when I came back, but same thing has happened, she cancelled and has now rescheduled to another day. I'm so confused by her behaviour, does she have interest in me or not? Is there something I can work with here or is it a lost cause? Is she leading me on? I have to add that I stopped interacting with her on social media and she's done the same. I am also trying to get her out of my mind but that is proving to be difficult. Any advice you guys might have and what do you make of this situation? Perhaps I need to hear an objective opinion as mine is clouded!
alphamale Posted February 21, 2020 Posted February 21, 2020 she has interest in you as a friend only 1
d0nnivain Posted February 21, 2020 Posted February 21, 2020 It is a lot of mixed messages. I'd go with 3 strikes & she's out. If she cancels again, writer her off but don't go into this will high expectations.
Fletch Lives Posted February 21, 2020 Posted February 21, 2020 Too many broken dates and rescheduling. Sane women who like you don't have that much trouble making dates.
JTSW Posted February 24, 2020 Posted February 24, 2020 On 2/21/2020 at 4:29 PM, Gnulian said: I'm so confused by her behaviour, does she have interest in me or not? I'm afraid not. She only see's you as a friend x
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