Author Sajra Posted February 21, 2020 Author Share Posted February 21, 2020 (edited) Legally separated for 3 years Divorced for 1 Just moved out We were both very open and honest about our situations and had no room to judge, since they were so similar. Someone mentioned earlier that I may have been filling a void in his life, but in actuality, we both had voids to fill. Edited February 21, 2020 by Sajra Link to post Share on other sites
HappySenior Posted February 21, 2020 Share Posted February 21, 2020 On 2/20/2020 at 3:30 PM, preraph said: I mean they don't really know you yet. So they fill in what they don't know about you with what they hope you are. and then sometimes that goes away as they get to know you better. Just date other guys. And sometimes, if they don't actually like women generally, they fill in with what they generally don't like about women - whether you hold those traits or not. And will continue to do that even when it's been proved over and over you don't share those traits. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sajra Posted February 27, 2020 Author Share Posted February 27, 2020 He reached out and we had a long talk. I understand and I agree. We went so fast. Our relationship was 0 to 10000 from day 1, plus we are long distance. We are not over, just slowing down a bit. Talking and texting all day makes it difficult to get anything else accomplished. Link to post Share on other sites
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