calworld Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 I feel relieved. Although I really love her, but I think it's time to move on. She seemed sad though...o wells...I am the dumpee. Actually kinda like it when she's sad.
lynnered Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 :lmao: :lmao: congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ThatOneGuy Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 I know, It feels good when they hurt. I guess it’s true. Misery loves company.
tms510 Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 if you "love" her, you wouldn't have dumped her and you wouldn't like it that she hurts in anyway. I don't think you know what love is.
ThatOneGuy Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 if you "love" her, you wouldn't have dumped her and you wouldn't like it that she hurts in anyway. I don't think you know what love is. Umm, Can you read? He said that he was the dumpee, meaning SHE broke up with HIM. Perhaps reading the post fully before you shoot off your mouth would be a wise idea.
downcydeguy Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 I'm a little confused on this one too! It sounds like he dumped her but called himself the dumpee?? Which is it man?
ThatOneGuy Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 She broke up with him, now he's moving on and taking pleasure that the fact he found someone else before she did. Get it now?
tms510 Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 The topic is misleading for one: "Just told my ex that I've moved on" - sounds like he dumped her. second, if he loves her, he wouldn't be happy that she's sad. dumpee or not it's simple as that. ThatOneGuy, you sound like a little prick still in high school.
ThatOneGuy Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 Ahh, How right you are. And you sound like some old lady with some penis-hate issues.
ThatOneGuy Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 Your just angry because someone confronted you on your own stupidity. It’s obvious that you have been hurt by someone you loved before, and your telling me that after they hurt you, you didn’t take any satisfaction when karma came back to bite them in the ass? But perhaps im assuming too much. Because im assuming someone would actually want to be in a relationship with someone like you
tms510 Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 confronted, no. the topic was misleading and I'm not the only one that seen that, dip****. "It’s obvious that you have been hurt by someone you loved before" -- who hasn't, duh? and you're the angry here, so you've obviously just recently been hurt. just because someone doesn't love you anymore or they have fell out of love with you that has nothing to do with karma. you shouldn't wish harm, pain or suffering on anyone, especially someone you "love" I think any mature adult will tell you that if you love someone, you wouldn't hope they suffer. you have a LOT to learn my friend, but you're only 17 and like I predicted, still in high school -- so I will give you the benefit of the doubt. save that internet psychology for kiddies.
ThatOneGuy Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 Angry isn’t the word I would use. I would use “Offended”. You knew I was 17? Prediction? No, you probably read my post where I confessed my life’s story about my recent breakup. The fact of the matter is, he has every right to take closure from her pain. Although, He probably doesn’t love her, he loves who she used to be for him. It’s not that misleading if you “Read between the lines”. Use a little bit of that prediction power you supposedly have. And for that matter, don’t question my levels of maturity based upon my age and gender.
Author calworld Posted October 6, 2005 Author Posted October 6, 2005 I am the one who got dumped by her. ThatOneGuy is right
westernxer Posted October 7, 2005 Posted October 7, 2005 Topic doesn't sound misleading at all... sometimes the dumper still wants to hang out with the dumpee, and the dumpee usually obliges in hopes that a reconciliation is on the table. By telling her he's moving on, he's saying that he's not gonna let her break his heart again. Of course he still has feelings for her, but those will fade with time, or when he finds someone else to rock his world. At least Calworld's taking matters into his own hand. I've been there, too. Back in the day. It's fun to see them squirm when you refuse a second chance...
ThatOneGuy Posted October 7, 2005 Posted October 7, 2005 Topic doesn't sound misleading at all... sometimes the dumper still wants to hang out with the dumpee, and the dumpee usually obliges in hopes that a reconciliation is on the table. That is EXACTLY what im talking about.
helena abadi Posted October 8, 2005 Posted October 8, 2005 i think he's got every right to feel a little pleasure from her pain. the dumpee always hurts the most. dumpees feel walked over. i feel good saying NO to my ex, because it is setting boundaries and reinforces my self-worth. we are all entitled to that. it is taking care of our own needs, and we have do it. closure is the only way to move on, and there's many different ways to do it. good on you for finding someone first.
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