littlelaxer Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 so my ex and i broke up a year ago and he has always called and dont all the contacting throughout that year. About a month ago he decided that he wanted to tell me that he still loves me and cares for me and that he cant stand hearing me out with other guys BUT doesnt want a gf. so he texted me a week ago and i texted back but after that i was like NO im not going to anymore. Now today i left my phone at home on accident. and when i got home around 4 i had a text from him that he sent at like 8:30 am. he said "hey whats hangin?" i didnt answer. now about 9:45 pm he textes me again saying "Fine then be that way!" i know he is not serioulsy mad........i know he is just acting stupid to see 1-if i ever got his first text and if i didnt then thats why i never responded and 2- to still see if im waiting around for his every move. maybe it hit a little spot cuase why would he text again. Am i doing the right thing? i feel like i am but at times its hard to stay tough like maybe i could give a simple "hey yeah im fine" but i cant right??! is my thinking good?
Author littlelaxer Posted October 6, 2005 Author Posted October 6, 2005 i do care about him....and all that but i cant keep playing these games with him......him thinkin he can just say all that stuff and its ok but ill still be waiting here for him. sometiems i feel like its going to be a matter of "he doenst know what hes got till its gone" kinda thing. so i feel like i just need to dissapear and not be there to answer his every move. sometimes i feel like if he really wanted talk he could just call and stop the stupid text messages. i feel like he does it to make sure im still around................
brittanyjean259 Posted October 7, 2005 Posted October 7, 2005 You really should stop talking to him. Ive seen these types of things all the time with my girlfriends, they really love eachother but break up...and for the next 8th months one doesnt want to be with the other but constanlty sees what there diong, who there doing, blahblah your never goin to move on if you keep talking
gevoraksix Posted October 7, 2005 Posted October 7, 2005 Is this" Friendship "with him what you want? Because it looks like thats all your are going to get from him. No contact is best when a relationship is over. Continuing to see your ex does nothing to help you move on.
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