oubliette Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 i met this guy online and we hit it off - immediate attraction! it's been two months now that we're "together" and for the most part we're happy...but i've noticed that he has a predilection for making me jealous {or trying to anyway}...he brings up other women all the time and when i don't respond to it he gets sullen and withdrawn...the thing is i trust him and really have no probelms with his female friends at all....but these tantrums are starting to get on my nerves...advice anyone?
SilentPrayer Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 Hey, I actually do this myself sometimes. It is just a small way to find out what your (special someone) feels about you. I have never went so far as to test (partner). If he is testing you, it will start to get more dramatic as times goes on. He will do things to hurt your feelings, say mean things ect not to mention break up with you just to see you get upset. I had someone like that in my life once and it was not pretty. What he is doing now is a sign for what is to get worst in the future. I only say something that I know about. I've done this...and sometimes catch myself doing it (but i've stopped now). In turn I learned it from someone I was with for a while. Be carefull it is contagious. lol. Talk it out~ he needs to know what he is doing is downright going to ruin what is the future.
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