SumGuy Posted February 21, 2020 Posted February 21, 2020 On 2/19/2020 at 9:27 AM, d0nnivain said: I could have several 1st & 2nd dates. By the time I wanted to go on a 3rd or 4th date with someone I was usually only dating them by then, no longer actively looking etc. That didn't mean we were exclusive. We were on my side but it wasn't mutual until we both talked about it & agreed. I usually waited about a month for that conversation. Pretty much exactly this for me.
Fognozzle Posted February 23, 2020 Posted February 23, 2020 The trouble with online dating, is that you can be in communication with (and even meeting) several people at the same time, at different stages of getting to know each other. When I was dating online it seemed like an understanding that there were probably always other people on their radar because that's just the reality. You become exclusive when you have the conversation and agree to it, and whether that's before or after the third date (or the first sex) is up to the individuals involved. I think you just have to be honest, and if it bothers you to go on a date with someone who is still in contact with other people, then online dating isn't a good choice for you. If you are ready to drop all the others for one, then you need to see if that one is prepared to do the same for you. 1
basil67 Posted February 23, 2020 Posted February 23, 2020 @Fognozzle your name cracked me up. Welcome aboard from another Aussie
Fognozzle Posted February 24, 2020 Posted February 24, 2020 On 23 February 2020 at 6:14 PM, basil67 said: @Fognozzle your name cracked me up. Welcome aboard from another Aussie Hehe thanks mate!
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