savannahtree Posted February 15, 2020 Posted February 15, 2020 Hey, I went on a 2nd date last night with a girl (I'm 26M, she 27F), it was a great night, loads of fun, kissed a lot, she was touching my waist quite a bit, all good communication and body language etc... We leave, I ask if she wants to come back, she says it's probably not a good idea as she has a busy day today. No problem at all, I'm never going to persist on that front. I walk her closer to hers' and she leaves me at the bus stop after kissing for a while. A few minutes later she messages: "You're cute", and then another: "That's all". It feels quite ambiguous. I can't tell whether the "that's all" means she doesn't she me as something romantic, or whether it was just a quirky thing to say, which would suit her characteristic from what I've gathered so far. I messaged back asking what the "that's all" meant, and said she was cute too. No reply yet. Time will tell when she replies but would appreciate anyone's views in the interim! Cheers.
Erik30 Posted February 15, 2020 Posted February 15, 2020 You're taking it too seriously, she was just joking around and gave you a compliment. I would say she's still interested 3 1
princessaurora Posted February 15, 2020 Posted February 15, 2020 She thinks you're cute, plain and simple. She's just getting straight and to the point. Its a pretty common phrase people use when they wanna be blunt. like "I love tacos. That is all. " or " I need a vacation. That is all" I like her style. She sounds like a fun girl. And she probably didnt go home with you because it's only a second date, but if she's touching your waist and stuff, she definitely likes you:) 3
Author savannahtree Posted February 15, 2020 Author Posted February 15, 2020 Yeah big false alarm. She's messaging and it's all good. I'm an over analyser, always have been.. I think I'm also a bit too used to most 2nd dates ending back at one another's place.. I like her, she's real fun. Definitely going to play my cards right with her! 1
balin Posted February 15, 2020 Posted February 15, 2020 Could it be just a bit of playful banter. "You're on the right track. Impress me more..."
ljwentworth32 Posted February 15, 2020 Posted February 15, 2020 its a good sign. at least she finds you attractive. now seduce her and flirt a little more and you'll find yourself in her bed or her in yours. i overread and overanalyze too. but ACTIONS speak louder than WORDS! ALWAYS. while we're on the topic, an aside... One of my worst 2nd dates with a girl, she was super responsive on text, texted back instantly with exclammation marks the whole nine. when we got on the date, her body language was so flat. like it was a totally different person. just was not peppy or excited and to make it worse, she came 20 minutes late. needless to say I never saw her again.
Blind-Sided Posted February 15, 2020 Posted February 15, 2020 sounds like you have you have it covered. Congrats on a good second date.
Miss Spider Posted February 15, 2020 Posted February 15, 2020 Way overthinking it. SHE was just being cute 3
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