Redhead14 Posted February 20, 2020 Posted February 20, 2020 It appears that the OP has bailed on the thread. It's probably one of two things: a) she received feedback that was 100% against allowing that situation and is still shopping for opinions until she gets just one that supports her decision so she can feel better about it or b) he stole her computer . . . 1
Author Cora Posted February 21, 2020 Author Posted February 21, 2020 Thank you all for your replies! I’ve been meaning to come back to this thread, but have had a lot going on and recently had a death in the family I’ve been taking pretty hard. Things are going ok with the guy who moved in. Not sure if things will work out with us. I know from the replies I’ve gotten that things don’t look good. I’d be naive to believe otherwise. I really do enjoy his company though, spending time with him and getting to know him. I realize I may not be the smartest person allowing a man whom I’ve just met to move in with me. I mean who does that??? I know how it sounds. He’s still looking for a house to buy. So it’s not a permanent thing him staying here. However, it is nice having him here. And it’s not like he’s just bumming around. He pays his share, contributes to the groceries, cleans, prepares dinner etc. And when we go out to eat he never allows me to pay. Sure, everything is not roses and sunshine....he has his quirks and so do I. But I expected that. Anyway, yeah I probably jumped the gun way too quickly. But things are working out so far. Though it’s way too soon in the game. Who knows where things will stand a year, a month or even a week from now. Right now I’m just going with the flow and enjoying the company of someone I really like. 1
Author Cora Posted March 8, 2020 Author Posted March 8, 2020 Update..... So I ended things with him. It’s a long story and we just were not right for each other. I was wrong in believing things could work out after moving way too fast. My mistake. I told him yesterday to have everything packed up, to leave his key on my table and to be out by the time I got home from work. He was gone when I got home, but left a few of his things behind and did not leave the key. So I’m gonna have to get that key back from him or either have my locks changed. Probably safer just to change the locks. He said a lot of hurtful things to me when I ended things. But it’s over now and I will never do that again. Think it’s best just to stay single for awhile.
FMW Posted March 8, 2020 Posted March 8, 2020 Sorry he had to be mean during the break up, but hopefully the experience will be useful in making decisions on relationships in the future. No need to rush something that is meant to be. Definitely change your locks. 3
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