Wildflower_xx Posted February 11, 2020 Posted February 11, 2020 I recently moved to a new city two weeks ago and have already met a guy that I really like. He organises networking events and parties for remote workers and Digital Nomads. We got messaging before I left my previous city, and I was excited to meet him in person. When we finally met, I was really interested straight away. This might sound a bit much and normally I don’t fall fast, nor jump headfirst into relationships or something. We met on Friday evening and ended up going home and sleeping together. We spent all day Saturday and Sunday together hanging out, having dinner, and meeting his friends. Then on Monday night we met up and went for dinner again. He also said that he likes me and would like to see where this could lead between us. We are planning to meet again on the weekend. I just feel that this situation is unusual and moving fast. I want to add that he is Spanish, so I don’t know if cultural difference is a factor. I’ve never moved so fast before but we just click and I really enjoy his company. I am trying not to get emotionally invested so soon because I know we met just a week ago. It’s not just a sexual thing, as we have some really good conversations and he is very affectionate in a non-sexual way. I was also NOT looking for a relationship when we met (but open to the possibility) having recently gotten out of a long term relationship and wanting to focus on myself.
ThorntonMelon Posted February 11, 2020 Posted February 11, 2020 I'd enjoy the ride. If you enjoy his company and want to be spending the time with him I would go with it. Obviously there's risk it could flame out but that risk exists even if you go slow. Enjoy spending time with a desirable person! 1
Gaeta Posted February 11, 2020 Posted February 11, 2020 Latin men are passionate and very expressive of this passion and North American women aren't use to that so get easily swept off of their feet. Don't forget they are also men like any other men and if you give them everything on a silver platter right from the get go they'll lose interest after the newness is gone. What is done is done, now sure go ahead and date each other but keep time aside for your friends, family and don't always be available for him. Keep having a life of your own that will make you more interesting. Don't skip the normal phases of dating. It's a time to get to know each other, not a time to forget your own life to his benefit.
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