findmyway7 Posted February 11, 2020 Posted February 11, 2020 Hi all! I went on a date with a guy, went well. He texted me when he got home "Had a nice time would like to do this again", I said "would like that". The following day he texted me "Happy Birthday" as it was my birthday and I said "Ah thats sweet :). How's your day going?" He never responded. That was last week. Should I just leave it and move on or message him?
Ami1uwant Posted February 11, 2020 Posted February 11, 2020 Last week as in Saturday or last Monday? give him some time if the date was Saturday. He nay feel he is desparste if he texts you right after but texted you he. if thus was last Monday he likely has some interest but he’s dating others and you weren’t too choice.
Miss Spider Posted February 11, 2020 Posted February 11, 2020 (edited) Leave it and move on Edited February 11, 2020 by Cookiesandough 1
GeorgiaPeach1 Posted February 11, 2020 Posted February 11, 2020 He's not very interested and is probably dating others. 1
Fletch Lives Posted February 11, 2020 Posted February 11, 2020 A week? If they don't respond within 24 hours it's not looking good. 1
Blind-Sided Posted February 11, 2020 Posted February 11, 2020 Give him the benefit of the doubt. Maybe it didn't send, or he just missed it. Tech does mess up sometimes. Send him another message, and just ask how his day has been going.
Fletch Lives Posted February 11, 2020 Posted February 11, 2020 59 minutes ago, Blind-Sided said: Give him the benefit of the doubt. Maybe it didn't send, or he just missed it. Tech does mess up sometimes. - This is very true. However, remember that he could have also initiated a text.
d0nnivain Posted February 11, 2020 Posted February 11, 2020 I'm not optimistic about your chances but we regret more in life those things we didn't try rather then when made an effort & failed. So go ahead & send ONE more text but if you don't get a response / date assume this is a no go & move on. 1
smackie9 Posted February 11, 2020 Posted February 11, 2020 (edited) He hasn't contacted you in a week? epic fail, move on. Not trying to rub it in your face but when I was dating, an interested guy would ask me out again after the date or the next day. One guy actually set a rose to my door with a not asking me out again. Too bad, I wasn't interested. Nice guy. Edited February 11, 2020 by smackie9
smackie9 Posted February 11, 2020 Posted February 11, 2020 1 minute ago, smackie9 said: He hasn't contacted you in a week? epic fail, move on. Not trying to rub it in your face but when I was dating, an interested guy would ask me out again after the date or the next day. One guy actually sent a rose to my door with a note asking me out again. Too bad, I wasn't interested. Nice guy.
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