Angel29 Posted February 10, 2020 Posted February 10, 2020 There is a guy I know who likes me. I know he is an introvert and is in his 40s. The thing he asked for my help and I helped him with some coursework which he did not even say thank you for my help. He talks about himself a lot and I don’t know if he does this due to nerves or is self centred. Should I see what happens or move on and find someone else? I want to be with someone who values me.
alphamale Posted February 10, 2020 Posted February 10, 2020 could you elaborate a bit on the situation Angel 29?
Author Angel29 Posted February 10, 2020 Author Posted February 10, 2020 4 minutes ago, alphamale said: could you elaborate a bit on the situation Angel 29? He does ask how I am but he doesn't really ask much about me and tends to go on about his life or his stressful working situation. I don't want to be a rescuer.
carhill Posted February 10, 2020 Posted February 10, 2020 Shy people don't prattle on about themselves, even with a good listener. The narcs know how to butter up a mark with a few throwaway questions but the key is they don't get into or remember details; it's all fluff. If they're attractive they'll get away with it, often 2
smackie9 Posted February 10, 2020 Posted February 10, 2020 Doesn't mean he doesn't value you, it means this is just the way he is...this is his personality or how he handles himself, possibly unknowing he comes off as self centered. Focus on the fact you are turned off by this, so just keep moving along and meet someone else who doesn't have you coming here for advice.
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