Should I trust her. Why would my so called friend ask me how I am now.

[Whatever2345]

This girl we were friends. But then she told my ex to give me my bear back or she will murder him. ( she lives In India) then after that she has stopped talking to me for a while and I thought to myself oh no. She’s definitely talking to him as a friend because she hasn’t texted me in a while even tho she says he looks like a monkey etc. but today she asked me how I was. And before when she was trying to help me she was like you’re upset about a boy who will possibly never text you again. She texted me saying how am I because I changed my username recently because I like to post relatable sad stuff and she asks how was I   Like I don’t trust her. She could be telling him how I am.  Should I even trust her. Him and I did not have any mutual friends. I haven’t talked to him in 4 months and I don’t want him knowing how I am. 
 

idk why she would take 2 months to ask me how I am when she’s always constantly on Instagram. But then again he’s in AIT training. But I guess they can get their phones sometimes. 

[d0nnivain]

You do have a mutual friend with your EX -- her.  

I don't think she's digging for dirt on you & reporting back to him.  But you can tell her that you would prefer that she not tell him things about you.  

Since you don't trust her, rather than cause drama just say you are fine.  Then change the subject.  

[preraph]

If you don't trust her I don't trust her. I'm sure you have your reasons. If she has betrayed you before she will do it again. But just like D0nnivain said, just be vague and say you're fine.  There is absolutely no reason to tell her anything personal or anything that isn't her business. You have no obligation to pour your heart out to her or give her any personal information and I think that would probably be a good plan for now.

[kendahke]

3 hours ago, Whatever2345 said:

Should I even trust her.

No.

In fact, keep her out of your business.  She's probably talking to him trying to get with him, despite what she's telling you. 

The guilty always make the most noise.