mark clemson Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 Yes, sexual frustration can certainly have negative effects on people. Men and sometimes women too. Sometimes the men "turn into" wierdos or just inappropriately sexually aggressive men. Sometimes they end up hating women and sometimes even other men too, like some of the incel crowd apparently do. Some women just give off bitterness and resentment towards men and more romantically fortunate women that's probably at least in part sexual frustration as well. 1
carhill Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 https://www.liveleak.com/view?i=f76_1323277426 A sense of humor helps 1
Author Ashers Posted February 5, 2020 Author Posted February 5, 2020 3 minutes ago, carhill said: https://www.liveleak.com/view?i=f76_1323277426 A sense of humor helps I just said I'm British. American humor is, in many ways, as dull as watching paint dry & this Brady skit is nothing worth a laugh.
sothereiwas Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 7 minutes ago, Ashers said: I hope you know as a a Brit I find American football players to be a bunch of pansies prancing around in spandex. One game with those guys would probably cripple you for weeks. 1
Gr8fuln2020 Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 3 hours ago, Lorenza said: Oh ew, way too explicit. Sexual frustration doesn't give a green light to not containing yourself, that's just lack of tact Absolutely. I don't start this kind of talk until I am deep into a relationship and I know my partner is all in. Naughty talk with a partner is one thing, but this guy was...eeesh... 1
mark clemson Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 @carhill You found it!! I've been looking for that on Youtube like forever! Woot!
Author Ashers Posted February 5, 2020 Author Posted February 5, 2020 (edited) 8 minutes ago, sothereiwas said: One game with those guys would probably cripple you for weeks. ROFL. If a guy were to take on a woman in such a way he's less than the trash in a garbage bin. But then spousal abuse is relatively common in NFL so really no surprise you'd comment in such a way. I am talking of men, darling. Compared to rugby, nfl players wear so much protective gear that quite literally against a full on rugby team decked out like rugby players they wouldn't stand a chance. Edited February 5, 2020 by Ashers
Ruby Slippers Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 2 hours ago, Gaeta said: Pervert. A man interested in getting to know you wouldn't say a thing like this in fear to turn you off and ruin his chances of seeing you again. He's only interested in getting in your pants. Inexcusable, we are in 2020 and supposedly civilized now. Yeah, I would have paid for my drink and walked out immediately. This guy has no tact and has no idea how to treat a woman. If you see him again, you're letting him know you're OK being talked to like a 2 dollar hooker, and his insulting behavior will most definitely continue. Not worth your precious time and energy. 4
Piddy Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 (edited) 5 hours ago, Ashers said: Oh jeez. Something about his cock was hard & he'd have to go 'play with himself in the bathroom'. Yeah, I think boner talk should come after you've seen each other naked. In other words you need to have seen his boner in all it's glory, before he talks about his boner. I think that should be a general rule of thumb to live by. Edited February 5, 2020 by Piddy 4
Author Ashers Posted February 5, 2020 Author Posted February 5, 2020 Ok. As I thought. For the record I made an excuse - after this coffee/dick bit - by having my brother call me about an 'emergency' and left the guy wondering what to do with himself instead of continuing the outing. It's rather annoying as he seemed a decent enough chap. This was only 2nd date & yeah... as off putting as can be. 1 1
elaine567 Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 2 minutes ago, Ashers said: ...left the guy wondering what to do with himself I guess he knew exactly what to do with himself... 2 1
preraph Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 He's not decent. The very best case scenario for someone who would say that would be that he was raised by wolves and hasn't been in civilization long enough to know any better. 1
sothereiwas Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 5 minutes ago, Ashers said: For the record I made an excuse - after this coffee/dick bit - by having my brother call me about an 'emergency' and left the guy In my opinion it would be better, in a safe place like that, to let him know this is not acceptable behavior. Not sure you have it in you to do that but if you can dredge it up it would count as doing your bit for the day at improving the world.
preraph Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 I think it would be a high risk situation for her to confront someone she already knows is "off." 3
Author Ashers Posted February 5, 2020 Author Posted February 5, 2020 (edited) 26 minutes ago, sothereiwas said: In my opinion it would be better, in a safe place like that, to let him know this is not acceptable behavior. Not sure you have it in you to do that but if you can dredge it up it would count as doing your bit for the day at improving the world. ROFL. You crack me up. Now I certainly "have it in me" as law enforcement but if he doesn't know such behavior isn't acceptable by now how is my telling him gonna be "improving the world"? That was the responsibility of his parents & they failed royally in that regard. Edited February 5, 2020 by Ashers 1 1
sothereiwas Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 1 minute ago, Ashers said: .... if he doesn't know such behavior isn't acceptable by now how is my telling him gonna "improving the world"? That was the responsibility of his parents & they failed royally in that regard. Someone needs to clue him in, but if you opt not to do so that's clearly your choice as well, I'm not throwing shade on you for deciding either way.
Author Ashers Posted February 5, 2020 Author Posted February 5, 2020 (edited) 2 minutes ago, sothereiwas said: Someone needs to clue him in, but if you opt not to do so that's clearly your choice as well, I'm not throwing shade on you for deciding either way. That was the responsibility of his parents. They failed. He isn't 12, he's a grown man. If I was a woman without self defense training or how to handle myself (as law enforcement) your suggestion could potentially turn violent even in "safe" settings - people attack others in broad daylight for less provocation than being told off. Edited February 5, 2020 by Ashers 2 1
sothereiwas Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 5 minutes ago, Ashers said: That was the responsibility of his parents. They failed. He isn't 12, he's a grown man. As I said, up to you. I don't go on dates with strangers, and I've never dated men, so I can only say what *I* would do in a similar but different in details instance. Even if I didn't tell them off, simply standing and immediately excusing myself should get the point across. This is what I would hope I would do.
Author Ashers Posted February 5, 2020 Author Posted February 5, 2020 4 minutes ago, sothereiwas said: As I said, up to you. I don't go on dates with strangers, and I've never dated men, so I can only say what *I* would do in a similar but different in details instance. Even if I didn't tell them off, simply standing and immediately excusing myself should get the point across. This is what I would hope I would do. But you're not telling anybody off, you simply get up & leave. Not a peep said & you yourself are certainly not going back to tell them off. So absolutely no offense but you seem to have this thing for male on female aggression. First by the commentary regarding football players messing up a woman & now some ridiculous "tell him off" behavior which could result in a potential issue. Now there's an old saying that most leaders follow - do as I do, not do as I say - and you may wanna consider it. And I did leave, or did you miss that? 1
preraph Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 3 hours ago, smackie9 said: I suspect it was a joke and n I suspect it was a joke. That's so sweet of you, Smackie, but I was only half joking. Behavior like this doesn't just exist in a vacuum. I fully think he's a pervert and it wouldn't surprise me at all if he wasn't in some level of sex offender behavior.
preraph Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 Asher, are you able to check to see if he has a criminal record of any kind? Or did you already do that before you met him?
SumGuy Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 Makes him? It's called impulse control. Yes sometimes it is harder than others, but part of being an adult is learning to control your impulses. In my book, controlling your impulses is part of being a "man." Boys and children can't control their impulses. 1 1
Miss Spider Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 (edited) 7 hours ago, Ashers said: Oh jeez. Something about his cock was hard & he'd have to go 'play with himself in the bathroom'. Ewww what a weird thing to say. If it was a joke, it was not even slightly clever. How good looking must this guy be to have you doing mental gymnastics to excuse this. Edited February 5, 2020 by Cookiesandough 2
sothereiwas Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 1 hour ago, Ashers said: First by the commentary regarding football players messing up a woman Didn't realise it was a woman.
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