OnlyHonesty Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 Stop putting up with bad treatment just because it's coming from a good looking girl. You shouldn't have even contacted her after the first disrespect. This probably comes from a scarcity mindset. I'd ditch a girl for even thinking about treating me that way (I'm psychic). 2
Fletch Lives Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 You have to get better at planning dates - that means you have to have a day and a time. Once you have that, if she breaks it without rescheduling, she doesn't like you enough or has some other dealbreaking issue. 2
manfrombelow2 Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 "If you want to know a person's true intentions, look at his/her actions, and don't listen to his/her words". Her action, or "inaction" to be exact, of NOT replying OP's text told us EVERYTHING we need to know about what's really going on inside her brain: She is simply NOT INTERESTED in OP. End of story. And when a person doesn't want anything to do with you anymore, all you can do (and must do) is moving on. 1 1
Noproblem Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 You are her backup plan! Not the main course, not even the dessert to be honest! Go find a girl who considers you number 1 or at least 2 after her work or family.. This girl is not the right option for you!
manfrombelow2 Posted February 6, 2020 Posted February 6, 2020 On 2/2/2020 at 7:42 PM, Moos said: The only thing I can think of is she said she was worried about liking me so much because she doesn't want to get hurt so she's just getting cold feet - This is lip service, meaningless words as excuse people use to cover their true intentions. Here, her true intention is, for whatever reasons, she lost attraction for you and thus she is now no longer romantically interested in you. Nothing more. or she just isn't into me (but why would she invite me to meet her twice if she didn't care) or she really is just terrible with her phone. Still, can you see why I'm confused? I'd appreciate some thoughts on this. - There's nothing to be confused about. It doesn't matter if she invited you to meet her or even had sex with you and drank your seeds, what matter is, at the moment, she doesn't want anything to do with you anymore. My advice for you is to accept this fact, leave her alone, and move on.
beentheredonethat77 Posted February 7, 2020 Posted February 7, 2020 (edited) Moos, I can see why you're confused honestly.... but let me tell you (and im not proud of this) Ive often told men (who are more into me than vice versa) that i am worried about having feelings for them so need to distance myself /protect myself as im not ready for anything etc. This allows me to back out at any time without having to say 'im not feeling you any more, you turned me off when you said xyz or simply.. for no specific reason no longer seem sexy to me' ---- ITs not cool and i really shouldn't do it as i can see it leads to holding out hope, im sure if a guy has lied to me in that way (no doubt its happened) its prevented me from moving on when i should have. Bottom line, i think the instances of women genuinely liking and wanting a man but staying away to protect her feeings.. is very very rare, she'll probably try but fail as we want what we want and we dont want to stay away .. I think move on for sure. Edited February 7, 2020 by beentheredonethat77
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