SophieG Posted February 2, 2020 Posted February 2, 2020 Well, after 1 1/2 year, my relationship is over. I cried for the first 3-4 days, but now I’m okay... okay with the idea that’s it’s over and telling myself that he wasn’t the one. I’ll meet someone in the future (when I’m ready) that will love me and will share the same dreams I do. Right now, I’ll just focus on myself. I make plans with friends, cherish the time I have by myself and just enjoy life. We’ll see what the future holds me for me. 3 1
Silver_star Posted February 3, 2020 Posted February 3, 2020 I am sorry for what you are going through. Sounds like you are already working on your healing. Good for you. I remember you commented on my post this past summer (in August) telling me about what you were going through and that it was causing you anxiety and stress. I think there is someone better for you out there. I think you will go through the phases, the ups and downs of letting go of someone important to you, but you will make it. I am doing much better than I was back in August. You will get there too. Keep your mind set positive like your above post and you will get through. Oh, and unfollow him on social media because then you cant analyze everything going on with him. That was one of the best gifts I gave to myself and I did it 5 months after the breakup...should have done it sooner. It's not mean/rude to them to unfollow...its being kind to yourself and putting yourself and your healing first. Wish them well in your heart and fully let them go.
DKT3 Posted February 3, 2020 Posted February 3, 2020 Healing from break ups is rarely a linear process, be prepared for repeated waves. 2
Author SophieG Posted February 4, 2020 Author Posted February 4, 2020 @DKT3 In all the break ups I had, I never had any setbacks... I cry for a week, and then I just focus on the little positive aspects of being single and work my way to healing. My last relationship, that lasted 4 years, I was over it and okay after 2 weeks, never looking back. I hope it will be the case with this one... if not, I’ll welcome any emotions I’ll feel and get through it. @Silver_star Thank you :) ! We only had Facebook and I unfriended him, so that’s good. He’s surprisingly taking it much harder than I am. I was prepared for that outcome so it feels like I started the « healing » process while we were still together. I’ll be okay, that much I know 1
Els Posted February 4, 2020 Posted February 4, 2020 Sorry to hear that, OP. I'm glad you are taking it so positively. Do reach out if you need any kind of support. {{hugs}}
Ruby Slippers Posted February 5, 2020 Posted February 5, 2020 It sounds like you have a great attitude. May I ask what the reason for the breakup was?
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