banjesse Posted October 5, 2005 Posted October 5, 2005 HI! my name is jesse, i am 14. there is this girl cuming over this weekend. she is my mums friend duahter. i have kissed girls b4, never been nervous around them. But this girl is different, she's really nice and genuine. I dont know how to aproach her ti kiss her or ask her to the movies, Coulkd some1 tell me in details. THANX! J.Graham!
slubberdegullion Posted October 5, 2005 Posted October 5, 2005 Slow down there, my young friend. The two posts are only 7 minutes apart. First of all, relax. Have a cigar. Chill. Be her friend first. Don't give another moment's thought to planting a lip-lock on her yet. I'm not a fan of movies on a first date, because your attention isn't on each other. Go play mini-golf or something... do something that will allow you a chance to chat with each other and learn more about your likes and dislikes. Besides, this gives you a better opportunity to be your natural charming self. Really. So lighten up. Back off the expectations of kissing. Just go have fun.
Author banjesse Posted October 5, 2005 Author Posted October 5, 2005 I have know here for a while? i just need to know how to aproach her for the kiss?
Lil Honey Posted October 5, 2005 Posted October 5, 2005 Tackle her and plant a big one right on her. She'll never know what hit her, so she won't know it was you. Okay. Just kidding. I'm agree with Slubberdegullion. What's the rush? ? ?
Author banjesse Posted October 5, 2005 Author Posted October 5, 2005 I have know her since we where 5 years old. I think its time a make a move on her..? and suggestion on how to aproach her or what 2 say to her....?
Author banjesse Posted October 5, 2005 Author Posted October 5, 2005 ??? Please it is 1:30 AM where i live, i have been up all night trying 2 find a suportive forum...?
Lil Honey Posted October 5, 2005 Posted October 5, 2005 Okay, you've known her for a long time. You are both changing, especially being teens. She isn't the same person she was when she was 5. Further, you both have a LOT of learning and growing to do. If I say more . . . well . . . I'll leave it at that.
Author banjesse Posted October 5, 2005 Author Posted October 5, 2005 NO!NO, keep goning its sounds like good advice...?
Lil Honey Posted October 5, 2005 Posted October 5, 2005 I'm here, but you won't like what I have to say. Maybe I should ask questions instead of "preaching." Why do you feel the need to kiss all these girls? Is there some sort of status that goes with that? Do you have other interests? Do you play soccer, go fishing, hunting or hiking? What about school? This IS a supportive forum, but folks just move around from one thread to another (and some of us are working, so we can't do like an IM thing). The thing is, I can only be supportive (personally) in saying what I think is the responsible thing to do and say, which is probably what you don't want to hear.
Lil Honey Posted October 5, 2005 Posted October 5, 2005 I was talking to a friend about this topic and this is how I explained my point of view. (You can call me old-fashioned at any time. LOL) I suppose it depends on the kind of kissing. A little boy's 14 year-old peck on the cheek is very different from a young man's 14 year-old French kiss. Too many kids are having babies when they are 15 and 16. I think kissing leads to other things. I think a 14 year old doesn't have the maturity to start behaving like an adult and doing adult things. I just wonder what happened to being a kid. IMHO, I doubt that a boy's body is mature enough to actually have those urges. I think a lot of kids - boys and girls - simple do things because they see adults doing them and they want to be like adults and want people to treat them like adults. Kids do things to "prove to others" that they are worthy of the attention they seek. I just wonder what the rush is.
Author banjesse Posted October 6, 2005 Author Posted October 6, 2005 There is know rush, as i said i have know her for a while and i just want to make a move, LOL!
Author banjesse Posted October 6, 2005 Author Posted October 6, 2005 THANX! For the help?, i really apreaciate it?
targetbag Posted October 6, 2005 Posted October 6, 2005 I agree about not rushing in to kiss her. You said she is "genuine," which makes it sound like she's a person you truly enjoy spending time with. Why don't you start off by just hanging out with her? Invite her to hang out with you and your friends, or like somebody else suggested, invite her on an interactive date, like mini golf or bowling. If you really like her, try not to get worked up over it, and just have some fun with the girl.
Author banjesse Posted October 6, 2005 Author Posted October 6, 2005 OK! thanks for the help, i think iy will help?Only a day and a half untill She comes Over?
Author banjesse Posted October 6, 2005 Author Posted October 6, 2005 What if i ask her if she wants to come to the games arcade or have a game of Pool, are they allright for a first Date..........?
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