Keeping a Girl Around That You Previously Asked Out as a Friend....

[SumGuy]

@TFY.  We do seem to live in different worlds from your posts.     I find it fascinating.  
 

[normal person]

12 minutes ago, GuitarGuy7 said:

That’s pretty much my main intention of going, I want to meet girls. 

At the previous church group I was in, I didn’t meet any girls. Guys would say hello to me but girls never said hello to me, I tried talking to several girls but most of them were unreceptive. Tried asking some girls out from the band (I ran the audio board for a little bit) but they all rejected me.  

Also, the church group was too big. Easily 200+ a night so it’s kind of hard to meet new people.  Also, not enough activities with opportunities to connect with people except for small groups but I’m not interested in that. 

The group that my friend invited me to, she said it was smaller and not as cliquey.  This might be better for me as hopefully there is better opportunity to connect with girls.  I might check it out for a semester, try to meet people there and see if I can meet some girls there.  

If that doesn’t work out, then I can always leave. 

 

Maybe you'd have better luck if you learned what type of behavior was appropriate for what situation, and not to calculatingly use people like tools to achieve your personal goals. I've linked you information about autism socialization programs and resources, you've ignored it at least 5 times. What's stopping you from entering a program like that?

Your ideas haven't given you any success at all, what makes you think this is going to be any different?