preraph Posted February 1, 2020 Posted February 1, 2020 Dude, he's a 27-year-old virgin. He's probably watched every porn video OUT there. He has no experience, so until he does, he's not even going to know where he is on the gay/straight scale, but we're all mostly somewhere in between, so no shocker there.
Author samjam7 Posted February 1, 2020 Author Posted February 1, 2020 ^^preraph I am also a 25 year old virgin. I have experience with relationship though but I don't think I need to try stuff out with a female to know for a fact that I am straight. Shouldn't people know inherently if they are gay/bi/straight? What is so confusing there? I get it tho that being a man and being 27 year old he has watched all kinds of pornography. Prolly he watched so much straight porn that he got bored and watched taboo s***. Porn just mentally corrupts people. Period!
preraph Posted February 1, 2020 Posted February 1, 2020 Well, what I've noticed with in general young people is it sometimes takes them a few years getting their feet wet sexually to really define themselves. One thing I noticed with young women when I too was young is a lot of them were having sexual confusion still at around 23 and experimenting. I mean, if a person is curious, they may just think, Hey, how do I know unless I try it?
Piddy Posted February 2, 2020 Posted February 2, 2020 (edited) 1 hour ago, preraph said: ,but we're all mostly somewhere in between, so no shocker there. Not just no, but hell no! I was never in between. I always knew I was straight. Sexuality preference chooses you, you don't choose which sex your going to be attracted to. I didn't reach puberty and say which am I going to like boys or girls? There was never any confusion with me and I suspect it's the same with most people. However, society plays a roll. If you're attracted to the same sex there may be a desire to fight that feeling because of there being pressure from societal norms. It's with this mindset that incremental steps may take place. You may start out by saying you're bisexual when you really know down deep what you really are. But because it's a big step you may be reluctant to declare yourself straight. Not easy for someone in that position. Understandable. Edited February 2, 2020 by Piddy 1
Author samjam7 Posted February 5, 2020 Author Posted February 5, 2020 I need help! How can I bring out this topic in conversation with the guy without offending him? I am curious to know more about his sexual orientation but do not want to offend/hurt him. I am afraid that telling him that I am put off by his gay porn habits will hurt him. I want to do this conversation in the nicest way possible so that truth comes out of him and I convey my discomfort. But I do not know how to bring this conversation on table out of nowhere. We have been talking about other random s***. Any suggestions/tips will be helpful?
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