Is he my one?is a twin flame the same asoulmate,what is the differences

[Mary faith goat]

Is he my one?is a twin flame the same asoulmate,what is the differences

[ExpatInItaly]

I personally don't believe in the concept of either a twin flame or soulmate. I think we are compatible with some more than others, of course, and it's that compatibility and conscious effort to nurture it that fuels a healthy relationship. 

Having said, that you need to give us more context. Who is this man to you? A boyfriend? A crush? 

[Mary faith goat]

I started seeing this man back in June but he was so indesicive between I and another woman.nowhere says he really luvs me and is w me.however I kicked him out today he's change he got all jealous real quick started accusing me.so this makes me feel like he's still on games.Im not sure I should leave him right now but 

 

 

[ExpatInItaly]

28 minutes ago, Mary faith goat said:

I started seeing this man back in June but he was so indesicive between I and another woman.nowhere says he really luvs me and is w me.however I kicked him out today he's change he got all jealous real quick started accusing me.so this makes me feel like he's still on games.Im not sure I should leave him right now but 

I don't follow - if this relationship wasn't good and it's already over, why are you asking if he's somehow your twin flame or soulmate?

[Daisydooks]

This guy is neither your soulmate or twin flame

You'll be able to move on faster if you stop believing he is. This relationship doesnt make you feel good inside so I have to say no, he isnt even close to being "the one." 

[elaine567]

You need to find a man that is besotted and obsessed with you and only you, not some guy who can't make up his mind between you and some other woman. 
That is a man you need to bin right away.
Next time do not waste 7 months hanging around...

[salparadise]

1 hour ago, elaine567 said:

You need to find a man that is besotted and obsessed with you and only you,

Yes, yes, yes... a man should be all-in from the get-go, such that you are in control whilst keeping your finger on the eject button.  

[preraph]

He's not even the right person for you much less your soulmate. He's completely fickle. Leave him kicked out. Why would you want that back? His reaction is because this was a kick to his ego, nothing more.

[elaine567]

6 minutes ago, salparadise said:

Yes, yes, yes... a man should be all-in from the get-go, such that you are in control whilst keeping your finger on the eject button.  

I guess you would not be pleased to be in some sort of a "waiting pile" whilst a woman makes up her mind about you, so why should a woman have to put up with that kind of behaviour

[salparadise]

13 minutes ago, elaine567 said:

I guess you would not be pleased to be in some sort of a "waiting pile" whilst a woman makes up her mind about you, so why should a woman have to put up with that kind of behaviour

I am just amused at all of the should this and should that with respect to gender stuff. Women are so used to being in the catbird seat that they start crying foul when they're not. In a sense it's no different than the paying for dates debate. Dating should always be free for her and cost the guy double... because, well, just because.

I'd like to see everyone happy and getting what they need from relationships, and don't see it as one gender being more entitled than the other. But that's obviously not a majority perspective in this neighborhood. 

Edited January 26, 2020 by salparadise

[mark clemson]

Generally, a man has to prove he "has what it takes" one way or another before getting the privilege of spreading his genes. The woman has to prove it too in different ways (being attractive, smart, etc). When it's easy to accomplish it's easy to be happy. C'est la vie.