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Is having casual sex a good idea?


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On 1/28/2020 at 4:13 PM, 2BGoodAgain said:

your sexual energy is your chemical addiction to the way he makes you feel....your brain recognizes the good feelings you get and encourages you biochemically to find it again....

what you really need to do is find out WHAT about him that affects you makes you feel this way...

figure this out, and you'll be happier long term, than the short term happiness you feel with this guy.

 

You know what, I read your reply and it made me think, I decided to take my time to figure this out and then come back here to reply to you.

It's a great question and one I had to ask myself.

Basically I talk to this type of guys because I like the attention. I want a relationship so much, I want a connection with someone so much, that when something intense comes up I grab it (even it if is just sexual attraction and nothing else). It's a guy that is there available (even if just for sex).

So I've decided to let go of this addiction (yes it is an addiction to the rush and adrenaline), stopped talking to this guy and to any others that show they only want one thing.

And guess what? I feel free. I feel I am now holding space for the right man to come up. So thank you! 

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