Gold Pile Posted October 5, 2005 Posted October 5, 2005 I've been pretty good at talking to the ladies always. No trouble getting them to my place, or me into her home. I do a decent time in bed. The only thing I'm always akward about is making that 1st physical move. It depends of course, but I usually stand behind her, work the shoulders (I may have done this a few times in earlier dates) then if it's right, I reach around her tummy and pull her to me. Kiss the neck, move my hands up (often with her top) to her breasts. Any other way...face 2 face, standing, sitting (especialy sitting!) I'm not smooth at all. What is your tech or what do you ladies like/dislike? Thanks very much
Gala242 Posted October 5, 2005 Posted October 5, 2005 There are hundreds of ways to make the first move, it all depends on the person and what they are comfortable with. the majority of the time you will be face to face, whether its standing or sitting but to me that's the best way to make the first move, from behind is too awkward. The best thing to do is to be cool, be yourself don't think too much, sit on the couch together conversate. The first thing to do is stare intensely into her eyes while u talk. then reach out and start stroking her hair with ur fingers and while doing so tell her her hair is very soft. This is like a little test, if she keeps letting you stroke her hair then you know that she'll be receptive to a kiss. u then lean in slowly and kiss her. After that well i'm sure u know what to do from there
Author Gold Pile Posted October 5, 2005 Author Posted October 5, 2005 The best thing to do is to be cool, be yourself don't think too much, sit on the couch together conversate. The first thing to do is stare intensely into her eyes while u talk. then reach out and start stroking her hair with ur fingers and while doing so tell her her hair is very soft. This is like a little test, Thanks Gala, but I'm pretty effective with the preliminaries. My 1st moves usually aren't rejected, it's just akward. Starting from behind has been an attempt to lessen it, but as you say it's akward in it's own right. Not thinking too much and the hair test is great advice for anyone.
Recommended Posts