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Thoughts on Multidating


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I was never interested in more than one person at a time. That's how my life went and it wasn't something I had that much say in, I feel. It was how I felt about the person I was interested and that was the reason to date. In the era of online dating I had gone on several first dates in one week, but I would never go on a second date if I wasn't interested. If I wasn't naturally "exclusive" on my end, it was a bad situation I shouldn't be in in he first place, and I felt I was using the person. 

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On 1/28/2020 at 9:41 AM, stillafool said:

To those of you who don't believe in multi dating does this mean that you ask for exclusivity on the first date?

No, we just don't normally see more than one person, but I don't usually bring up the exclusivity at all. In my experience, the men always have brought it up first. 

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3 minutes ago, BrennaR said:

No, we just don't normally see more than one person, but I don't usually bring up the exclusivity at all. In my experience, the men always have brought it up first. 

To be fair, I always end up with controlling narcissists though. 

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