Miss Spider Posted January 20, 2020 Posted January 20, 2020 (edited) Did you agree? Personally, I would not. You shouldn't have to goad someone into showing interest. I think if you go, there is more of the same to be expected down the road. Like ruby said, if you put it out there he will probably take it, but he needs to show the effort.Hope he does from now on. Hope it works out for you. Edited January 20, 2020 by Cookiesandough
dispatch3d Posted January 20, 2020 Posted January 20, 2020 From what I can tell after you said you are interested it took 2 days for him to plan something? That isn't that long, just keep trucking with this one is what I'd do.....
snowcones Posted January 20, 2020 Posted January 20, 2020 On 1/18/2020 at 9:58 PM, FaithInTheDark said: I wont bring it up again, but honestly I dont think he even realizes what hes doing wrong here, not making excuses just seems that way a bit. Should I stop responding to his texts ? Men love to text and no he doesn't realize what he's doing wrong. Yes stop responding to his texts and block him.
Author FaithInTheDark Posted January 20, 2020 Author Posted January 20, 2020 I’m considering going out with him and giving him a chance . I feel like he realized and asked me out to set up a date, wouldn’t a guy just disregard and blow me off that if he wasn’t Interested? I understand where everyone is coming though.
JTSW Posted January 20, 2020 Posted January 20, 2020 Ok so I have the opposite opinion of most here. I don't think you should write this guy off yet. I think he is genuinely interested in you and meant the things he said. He has started his own business and that is going to take up allot of his time. He has been promoting this business allot online. Go on this date and see how it goes. 1
PegNosePete Posted January 20, 2020 Posted January 20, 2020 On 1/17/2020 at 9:02 PM, FaithInTheDark said: He text me right away saying "I had such a fun time, and im looking forward to going on more dates in the future, it might be too early to say but, i really like you, i finally found someone i can vibe with and think you're beautiful" If I genuinely felt like that about someone then I would want to lock down date #2 ASAP. 3 days with no ask? Something doesn't add up. 1
PegNosePete Posted January 20, 2020 Posted January 20, 2020 6 hours ago, FaithInTheDark said: wouldn’t a guy just disregard and blow me off that if he wasn’t Interested? Not really. Seems like he wasn't that interested, even when you hand it to him on a silver platter he takes a couple of days to get in gear. I wouldn't want to date someone who is so disinterested in dating me. 1 1
JTSW Posted January 20, 2020 Posted January 20, 2020 This all could be something as simple as you were both waiting for the other to initiate. There was no reason you couldn't specify a time and date.
2BGoodAgain Posted January 20, 2020 Posted January 20, 2020 kinda jumping the gun, there...... when you overtext or delete his number b/c you don't find his interest level to be what you want... it's kinda the same thing. over reaction. however, if quality time or affirmation is your primary love language and it isn't his, then you two might not be good for each other... Also, if he has time to post things online, but he rather not see you... it might be more about time... posting things online takes a lot less time than meeting someone face to face... it's kinda too early in the dating process... i advise seeing him for 1-2 dates before you delete his number. 2
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