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A girl's gotta eat. Tell her she'll do better (and have less legal risk) on a SugarBaby site.

Pics - that's cute. Funny when "your girl" shows up on 12 different guys' social media accounts in the same week or similar and one of your friends somehow notices. That'll get around... 🙄

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26 minutes ago, CAPSLOCK BANDIT said:

Fixed that up for you.

Really? Well if that's how you feel, I hope you never get married

Signed - the bread winner. 

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You gotta be quick on your feet in these situations....

Tell her that you work for the IRS and would like to set up a meeting to discuss her quarterly reporting...😂

TFY

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I've seen young ladies  livestreaming 'cams' on YouTube that can get 80 bucks in ten minutes. I think YouTube takes 30% of superchats but who knows what they get off the portal via other means. I'm just talking about what's seen. Gotta pay for the clothes, makeup and hair!

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4 hours ago, depcharger said:

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I was the told "a date, a public one, would cost me $80 per hour" She also charges for pictures

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How am I supposed to react to this?

Report if you like.   She's using the dating service to hook.

Frankly I could care less if that is what she wants to do, but if she was rude about it I may just report it.   The audacity really, the least you can do is be personable when engage in a illegal activity, not to mention the stupidity.

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4 minutes ago, SumGuy said:

Report if you like.   She's using the dating service to hook.

Frankly I could care less if that is what she wants to do, but if she was rude about it I may just report it.   The audacity really, the least you can do is be personable when engage in a illegal activity, not to mention the stupidity.

she has some balls, $80 per hour just to hang out, with a average looking girl, 

seems women can get away with it easier     

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Nobody says you have to pay.   She charges what the market will bear

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23 minutes ago, depcharger said:

she has some balls, $80 per hour just to hang out, with a average looking girl, 

seems women can get away with it easier     

She doesn't' want to hang out with you, she wants you to pay her for sex.
And what is easy about having to sell her body to all and sundry on an app to make a living...

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45 minutes ago, depcharger said:

she has some balls, $80 per hour just to hang out, with a average looking girl, 

seems women can get away with it easier     

This is not a dating issue. You were solicited by someone unsavory and nothing more and end of discussion. Good luck and simply find someone who isn't clearly not interested in dating or looking for a meaningful relationship. Unless you are interested? :D 

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You make it sound like there would be no issue here if she asked you for $20 

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The best way to respond is to not respond. She'll get a clue and move on. 

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Cash for Company,

Id venture to say $80 per hour is not unreasonable.

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2 hours ago, lana-banana said:

^^ That doesn't sound like a proverb, that sounds like a fake quote from a creep. A woman's highest calling involves a man? Yeah, right.

If you keep reading, you'll see that the Cherokee believe man's highest calling relates to woman as well. 

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5 minutes ago, enigma32 said:

Not if she is pretty. $160 plus expenses to date an average looking girl? That's like paying a $20 spot for a McDouble at McDonald's. And Mcdonald's knows what their food is worth 😉

Fair point!

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7 minutes ago, enigma32 said:

Not if she is pretty. $160 plus expenses to date an average looking girl? That's like paying a $20 spot for a McDouble at McDonald's. And Mcdonald's knows what their food is worth 😉

"Date" or hire a sex worker?

Let's quit calling it a "date" when a woman demands payment to spend time with a guy.

Plenty of men are able to go on dates without needing to hire sex workers.

Attracting women is a little more difficult than buying a low end cheeseburger.

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4 minutes ago, enigma32 said:

 I'd at least have to leave the house to get a McDouble. 

not any more - Door Dash will bring it to YOU

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7 minutes ago, enigma32 said:

Not really. There is an art to it. If I was a single guy, I could just sit on my couch in my pj's, post some nonsense on Facebook, and have female company within an hour or two. I'd at least have to leave the house to get a McDouble. 

Well, I am sure those women would be about as high quality as those cheeseburgers ;)

Perhaps the OP is extremely suave and has women clamoring for his company.

But the fact is - some men do not have your artistic talent, and are left wondering what it means when a woman wants money to go on a date...

And well, if it was so easy for all men, I would have to wonder how some women manage to get men to pay for "service" like this. 

Apparently not all are ladies magnets like you are. 

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28 minutes ago, Ruby Slippers said:

If you keep reading, you'll see that the Cherokee believe man's highest calling relates to woman as well. 

What is the source of this? All I found was images of Pinterest quotes, not actual books. I don't think a man's highest calling has anything to do with women either.

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My guess these women are targeting guys who are less than successful with the ladies, they are on the app they know the guys who keep coming back, who have bad profiles. bad pics who are less than desirable. Guys who will not be getting much interest from normal women, guys who are holding out for "hotties".
They know that  a % of these guys will take up their offer.

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5 minutes ago, enigma32 said:

You're right, they wouldn't be the best ladies haha. As to men paying, I get it. It's just less drama. Drop a few bucks, negotiate what you want, and get it. Dating apps and dating in general are less than pleasant for a man these days, IMO. I don't blame these guys for paying. I have a buddy that pretty much only gets with hookers...has given up on relationships and dating altogether. 

I don't disagree that dating apps suck.

How is that working for your buddy? Is he happy as long as he is getting sex? 

I have always wondered about that - I guess for many women a big part of sex appeal is being desired. I think this is why sex work for women has never really taken off. I wouldn't want to have sex with an extremely attractive man that I had to pay - that would be majorly unsatisfying. 

When you are paying someone, you know that they don't desire you at all, but rather desire your money and tolerate you. 

Just seems like it would be a blow to the ego. Sure you got a hot body for the night, but unless money was exchanged, she wouldn't give you the time of day. I don't quite understand how that is fulfilling for some.

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Yes, but it is a pretty superficial life.
These girls do not want to be with that guy, they are just there because he is paying them.
She doesn't like him, she doesn't want to be there.
Fine he gets sex, but is that all there is?
 

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58 minutes ago, RecentChange said:

Just seems like it would be a blow to the ego. Sure you got a hot body for the night, but unless money was exchanged, she wouldn't give you the time of day. I don't quite understand how that is fulfilling for some.

For many men, particularly when they are young, sex is quite fulfilling in and of itself even under dubious circumstances. We pay for a hot meal too. Those two things are, I think, a lot different for most women, but for many men sex is somewhat more akin to a biological need. Hence the popularity of porn to whack to, etc, when you can't have the real thing. And hookers.

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8 hours ago, depcharger said:

How am I supposed to react to this?

Is there any reaction other than, "How does get f@*ked sound?"

The answer is... no!  It's an answer that's as surprisingly obvious as your question isn't.

Really, dude?  Unless you want a prostitute, you unmatch and move on.

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7 hours ago, Blind-Sided said:

And this is why I refuse to go on a dating app.  You should respond with... "I would like to buy, but can you recommend someone with a better attitude?"  LOL

You have to wade through the crap to get to the gold on dating apps.  Sure, they can be frustrating, but they clearly work or they wouldn't exist.

I don't know if you're male or female, or what exactly you're looking for.  However, dating apps can be brilliant.  I've met, dated and slept with and been scared off bh some very interesting people!

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At least she is being honest about it. It's better than women who convince a man that they love him and then take him for all he is worth. Prostitutes are much more honorable an decent than gold diggers because it is an honest exchange. This is why men should embrace women's financial independence instead of being threatened by it. I have no idea why some men think being treated as a walking ATM is somehow more masculine. I love the fact that my wife doesn't need my money but loves being with me more than anything in the world. I have love without buying it and in the very unlikely event that we do split at least I won't get taken for my money.

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