Author sunflower1008 Posted October 11, 2005 Author Posted October 11, 2005 You are at that point. I know I am at that point Old Europe...it sure is a point I don't like. lol. Anyway, the sad thing is, I don't think he will contact me anymore. I know he's going through a miserable time, but I think he just wants to stay away from me because his W found out. That's hard to take since we were so close, but I'm going to have to get used to it. You're right - if he doesn't call, I know where I stand with him. Live and learn, right?
legrtova Posted October 11, 2005 Posted October 11, 2005 Sunflower I'm sorry Sometime it takes time (especially when it comes to men;) ) for people to figure things out. It might take days, weeks, months... But do you want to be 'chosen' by him? Where is your word and want in this? Isn't it a bit selfish from him? Just my 2cents.... Hang in there girly!
Author sunflower1008 Posted October 14, 2005 Author Posted October 14, 2005 You are in a win-win situation though it does not feel like it. Thank you OldEurope....it sounds like you understand where I'm coming from. Here's what happened... He DID call, about a day ago. He was frantic, freaking out. He wanted to know if I called his wife to tell her about the affair and I insisted it wasn't me. He told me that his wife is freaking out and he wanted me to help him find out who did it. I asked him what could I possibly do??? He said, he knows - he was just venting and I was the only one he could talk to. ha! We haven't spoken in 2 weeks! Then he had to go and I said to him to call me. Usually in the past, I would of called him the next day (today) to see if he was ok, but I didn't. Hopefully, he's surprised at that too. I surprised myself! lol He knows where I am if he wants to get a hold of me. No more chasing for me. Do you think after 2 weeks, this is a good thing that he called me?
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