Lotsgoingon Posted January 15, 2020 Posted January 15, 2020 You sound extremely confident to me ... and I applaud that ... I guarantee you ... every one of those coaches you found online-I GUARANTEE YOU--would say hit the pause button--and be ready to hit "stop"--when a guy says something as lame and as noncommittal as "Well I COULD date you." ... As if the idea had never occurred to him. If a guy likes you and finds you reasonably attractive, he's going to be always thinking about the "dating" question--even if he's trying to avoid officially dating, even if he's leaning toward just being friends. And yes, lots of folks can be great company with us--doesn't mean one bit that they want to date us seriously. For some people (I was like this when I was young and immature and terrified) I could relax with a woman precisely because was I was avoiding committing. And I confused a number of women, I confess, just as this guy confused you. I know exactly the games this guy is playing. Be really fun and open on this trip and maybe that buys me time not to talk about going official.
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