wuballz Posted January 9, 2020 Posted January 9, 2020 (edited) Pleae no "don't date coworkers" comments. Thanks for the concern but i've decided to take the risk Started new job, me (male 39) and this girl (female 29) seem to be flirting. We don't get to talk much at work but Some of the signals I think she gives me that is positve are: -We make a lot of eye contact. When I look at her, she would make faces at me and I would laugh or make one back -Told her I was going to my home country for a Vacation, She told me she wanted to go to my home country too. -She told me shes going to her home country for a vacation. I told her i've always wanted to go and she said "you should go! I can show you around!" -We casually checked the times we are going on vacation to see if our plans match up so I can visit her country with her and she can come to my country with me -She neversly laughs when ever I make a joke. -Strong eye contact when ever we talk, we both stare in each others eyes and I catch her bitting her lip or sucking on it a lot. We don't see each other much at work cause we work in different departments so I decided to try and start a conversation with her by Direct messaging her on Instagram I decided to keep it safe for the first message last night by saying: ME: "Hey found out we are getting our bonus and things haven't changed." 4 Hours later Her: "Are you sure? I talked to HR and they told me to check back but theres probably not going to be a bonus this year :(" ME: "Oh that sucks... I hope it isn't true lol. when did you find this out?" Then the next day afternoon, around her lunch break time she messages back. Her "I found out yesterday haha, but they said they are not 100% sure yet. I want to be careful at work and not bother a coworker. Her slow text back time feels to me like shes not super interested. Is that the case or am I being insecure because I kinda like this girl a lot? Thanks for the help Edited January 9, 2020 by wuballz
preraph Posted January 9, 2020 Posted January 9, 2020 We don't know if she wants you or is just a person that feels being nice to people at work is part of her job. All you can do is see if anything develops.
smackie9 Posted January 9, 2020 Posted January 9, 2020 If a woman is interested, she will make hints at you asking them out.
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