Hal2405 Posted January 6, 2020 Posted January 6, 2020 So my gf got annoyed because I didn’t give her space she asked for. Is this a good sign, I’m aware space usually never is, but the fact that something I do annoyed her surely shows she wants the space to work or hopeful it will
Happy Lemming Posted January 6, 2020 Posted January 6, 2020 Sometimes humans need some "alone" time... a little down time to be by themselves. Maybe you are being too clingy??
ExpatInItaly Posted January 6, 2020 Posted January 6, 2020 You need to give us more context. How long have you been dating, and why did she ask for space?
PRW Posted January 6, 2020 Posted January 6, 2020 "Space" is just "code" for a break up without saying it directly. If they want space you stop dealing with them until they reach out to you. When they say they want space you need to ask them to clarify if that means you are both free to see other people or not. Sometime making them think about that make them back track on it if they don't want you seeing anyone else during the "space". But if they say seeing others is fine then you need to do exactly that. 1
d0nnivain Posted January 6, 2020 Posted January 6, 2020 2 hours ago, Hal2405 said: So my gf got annoyed because I didn’t give her space she asked for. Is this a good sign, I’m aware space usually never is, but the fact that something I do annoyed her surely shows she wants the space to work or hopeful it will Not really. She doesn't want the space to make it work. She wants you to go away without her having to directly say so. You fix a relationship by working together to correct what's wrong. Space -- time apart -- just makes you out of sight, out of mind. It does not make the heart grow fonder. There are exceptions. There was a thread on LS earlier today about some guy who said him & his GF were in contact "all day every day." IMO he was smothering her. She asked him to back off & if he does that should solve things. Your case is different. She's done but too cowardly to say so. Sorry. 1
Mrin Posted January 6, 2020 Posted January 6, 2020 OP's story in food: I love to go to this barbecue restaurant down the street. I've been going there for a couple of years and I know all the people that work there by first name. Anyhow the other day I went in there straight from the beach and I wasn't wearing shoes. The waitress, Sara, came over and chatted for a few minutes. And then she said I had to leave because I wasn't wearing shoes. A few days went by and I decided to swing by and see Sara again and get some good barbecue. I had left my shoes in the park. When I went in there Sara came over and said I had to leave. She was annoyed and didn't even make small talk with me like she usually does. It was like she was annoyed at me. Do you think her annoyance means that she worries that I might step on something sharp and hurt my feet? Many she likes me! I hope so. I really like her. And the BBQ is awesome!
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