Theyoungin Posted January 4, 2020 Posted January 4, 2020 What's up. I've been knowing this chick for about 5 years. Our "run" was real short and wasn't even nothing serious. Over the years I would hit her up , sometimes she will not respond and sometimes she will. One day she hits me out the blue after a month of not responding to me..she writes " wassup"..I respond with " wassup..where you at?"..she'll respond with " Why wassup" (which is dumb to me because she hit me up smh)...I'll respond and she'll never respond (lol)... Fast forward..a year later.. bored and I was on my snapchat..I screenshoted a message she sent..she saw I screenshotted it she opened the message instantly..I didn't respond she didn't also..next day I hit her up..she responds instantly...I write be back she responds instantly...a week passes and I hit her up and say " I'm gonna swing by today"..she responds back "No"..I'm like "why..what's up?"..she says " I don't have nothing to wear".....I wrote back she didn't open and the next day I see she opened but didn't respond...so I wrote her again and told her to text me her address..she right back in 3 min and says "Home" ( in my mind I'm like "bingo" lol)..I reply back " send me address"..she replied back " where you at I'm gone pull up on you I don't like people coming to my house"....I gave her the address..see says " uuggh I'm on the east washing clothes give me a min"....I wrote her back and told her I'll come there..she didn't open it or respond until hrs later and said " I don't like no one coming to my house I'm coming now"...long story short she never came (lol). Later that night I wrote her again and told her to pull up now to the address I sent..I then called her after some mis..she declined it and wrote back " I'm in for tonight I've been ripping and running all day"...I'm saying to my self "wtf? Lol". I never responded till the next day she never opened it. I'm confused. When it happened my gut said she got "nervous" but then I don't want be delusional...what do you all think is going on? Is she just not interested ? Is she playing hard to get? I'm lost..should I stop hitting her up??
CAPSLOCK BANDIT Posted January 5, 2020 Posted January 5, 2020 You are over-pursuing, just let her come to you... That "Wassup" was probably a group message to a bunch of guys that she has on the go, its a pretty common tactic around this type of dynamic, just find somebody else to give your attention to.
JTSW Posted January 6, 2020 Posted January 6, 2020 Hi Theyounin, Sorry but she has 100% no interest in you. Forgive me if this sounds a little rude, but your actions were rather pushy. It would put me right off too if a guy kept pushing me for my address. I'd leave this one well alone. There is nothing in it i'm afraid.
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