Joan1982825 Posted January 2, 2020 Posted January 2, 2020 (edited) Hello. Last year I met a girl at college. We had many things in common and became friends very quickly. We talked quite often and hanged out after classes a few times. I liked the girl and really felt that she liked me back. When the semester ended I asked her out on a date over text. The date never happened. She flaked on me twice, and kind of ignored my third attempt on dating her after seeming very interested when setting up the dates (she even planned the date the second time I asked her out). Despite of all of these, I had the impression that she didn´t want to turn me down completely. So I decided to wait until I see her in person again and depending on how things go maybe ask her out again. The new semester started and I decided not to approach her unless she approached me first. We talked many times that new semester, and in all of those occasions she came to me to say hi and start talking. I thought on asking her out again in person, however, before I could do that I discovered from a couple of friends, that knew her as well, that she already had a boyfriend for almost one year. To my surprise, it was a guy she had introduced to me once without mentioning he was her boyfriend. Moreover, I found that the guy and I had many in things in common, which made me wonder even more why she never mentioned him to me. Now, almost five months later, I know from a friend that she broke up with her boyfriend a couple of weeks ago. I was wondering if the fact that she never mentioned her boyfriend to me (even after asking her out) meant that she liked me at least to some extent, and if it would be a good idea to ask her out again. Edited January 2, 2020 by Joan1982825
mortensorchid Posted January 2, 2020 Posted January 2, 2020 If she gave you the shaft before, chances are she will again. You already know this based on past experiences so why attempt with her again? Just move on.
schlumpy Posted January 2, 2020 Posted January 2, 2020 (edited) She didn't mention her boyfriend because she wanted to keep you interested enough to so that you didn't pursue other relationships. You were most likely just one of many possibilities that she keeps on the shelf as a reserve. If you do date her, she will do the same to you. Find someone who want's to be with you and not manipulate you for their own selfish ends. You should know difference by now. Edited January 2, 2020 by schlumpy
JTSW Posted January 2, 2020 Posted January 2, 2020 You have asked her out multiple times with no results. She broke up with her boyfriend a few weeks ago and has not said anything. I would not ask her out again and move on from her.
smackie9 Posted January 2, 2020 Posted January 2, 2020 Leave her alone.......if she starts being in your space again, then maybe. 1
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