crazyguy123 Posted January 1, 2020 Posted January 1, 2020 So a year and a half ago, my friends tried to set me up with this girl. I've asked her out multiple times. She would say yes but never follow through. So naturally, I just gave up. I'm not gonna be chasing on a girl all the time. Last night on her instagram story, I sent a reaction because she did do something hysterical. She continued to tell me that she likes me and such. I find it weird that we've never gone on a date though? Only met in person once and we hardly spoke I did ask her out and I'm not expecting anything from her. What are your thoughts?
mortensorchid Posted January 2, 2020 Posted January 2, 2020 You answered your own question : You asked her out and you don't expect her to respond and/or blow you off. This reminds me of this guy I knew many years ago - He told me that he went out with this girl last weekend and he really liked her. I said "That's nice". He then said every time he calls her on the phone she screams and hangs up, or when he sees her in the cafeteria or otherwise, she screams and runs the other way. He asked me "What do you think that means?". I said "You don't need ME to tell you what that means, do you?" He was a bit clueless to say the least. As far as I know she never reciprocated. And neither with this gal. Move on.
VIOLET EDEN Posted January 2, 2020 Posted January 2, 2020 If shes really interested, its the 21st century, she will ask you out. Otherwise don't bother
schlumpy Posted January 2, 2020 Posted January 2, 2020 I guess I would be worried that because this was so uncharacteristic of her past behavior that she and her girl friends were sitting around and having fun at my expense while she demonstrated how she could pull my strings. I'm not saying that is true but I think she already knows you are interested because you have repeatedly asked her out. The ball is in her court. Let her ask YOU out in civil and dignified manner that indicates a serious intent. Her behavior right now (to use a baseball analogy) is out in left field.
JTSW Posted January 2, 2020 Posted January 2, 2020 Maybe she doesn't like being set up with guys and pushed by her friends. Maybe she just likes to do things in her own time and when she is ready.
smackie9 Posted January 2, 2020 Posted January 2, 2020 She likes you as a friend. Liking someone doesn't always mean romantic.
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