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Just now, kendahke said:

not really unless you're into unicorns

so he is a perv?

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On 12/31/2019 at 8:27 PM, Eternal Sunshine said:

Back when I did OLD, I didn't take anything anyone said before the meeting seriously. My investment was non-existent. The only thing I expected was for the guy to show up or cancel our meeting. After we met and there was chemistry, expectations can change quickly. 

I would love to know if you would take the gif he sent seriously before a meeting(if I didn't unmatch him like tonight).

 

so he finally texted me on new year's eve, which was 2 days ago. and now I need to unmatch. wth

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Editor: sorry, please delete the links or this thread

I texted the person. it was a misunderstanding

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Judging from your post history, this seems to be a common occurrence with online dating. 

Someone becomes interested and you get nervous. 

You go on the defensive and find fault in everything they say and do, but you don't mean to.

You become cold and accusing towards them when that is really not your intention.

This guy doesn't sound like a player at all. He sounds genuinely interested.

But it's very early so he still remains active and talks to others and that's ok.

You don't have to be nervous. 

You just need to allow yourself to actually get to know someone.

 

  

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14 hours ago, Springsummer said:

so he is a perv?

a bear giving les bises to a chicken? I don't consider that perverted. If the gif had the bear swallowing the chicken's head, yes.

 

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